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<blockquote data-quote="so ready to live" data-source="post: 704206" data-attributes="member: 20054"><p>Albie. I have followed along. Your previous text conversation gave me a good example to follow. Your dumbass conversation was the real me. I do usually have<em> this</em> conversation in my head in order to not be hurt by the flying debris out of my son's mouth.</p><p>Many times we simply don't respond to texts. It seems at first that this is less painful, just to not get into it, but recently I've felt it would be more honest and healing for us and for him, if we could find a way to answer as you do. At least that would say we acknowledge him and his situation, reinforcing our concern and love. This is what is so hard right now...it is cold..he is homeless...again. Merry Christmas. </p><p></p><p>Your day to day texts show how it "turns on a dime". I so need to remember that and also that we really never know what is truth. I believe the pattern of lying my son has perfected comes so natural now that he also doesn't differentiate anymore. I so loved the guy under the drugs. </p><p></p><p>The truth.</p><p></p><p>The truth.</p><p></p><p>The Manipulation.</p><p></p><p>The raw truth.</p><p>WE LOVE THEM SO MUCH. All of us here. I'm sorry you've had to go through this. I get it. Thank you today for making me feel a little less alone. Prayers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="so ready to live, post: 704206, member: 20054"] Albie. I have followed along. Your previous text conversation gave me a good example to follow. Your dumbass conversation was the real me. I do usually have[I] this[/I] conversation in my head in order to not be hurt by the flying debris out of my son's mouth. Many times we simply don't respond to texts. It seems at first that this is less painful, just to not get into it, but recently I've felt it would be more honest and healing for us and for him, if we could find a way to answer as you do. At least that would say we acknowledge him and his situation, reinforcing our concern and love. This is what is so hard right now...it is cold..he is homeless...again. Merry Christmas. Your day to day texts show how it "turns on a dime". I so need to remember that and also that we really never know what is truth. I believe the pattern of lying my son has perfected comes so natural now that he also doesn't differentiate anymore. I so loved the guy under the drugs. The truth. The truth. The Manipulation. The raw truth. WE LOVE THEM SO MUCH. All of us here. I'm sorry you've had to go through this. I get it. Thank you today for making me feel a little less alone. Prayers. [/QUOTE]
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