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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 703342" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Oh. Now I understand.</p><p></p><p>Well, good. I think I did write a good explanation to use in some future encounter. Smile. Feel free to use it if it ever applies!</p><p></p><p>I agree with your wariness about meeting in that town on that day. Your son could easily guess your plans. While he might not know the time--why worry?</p><p></p><p>Is there a neighboring town, where something might be open? Gosh. I would steer clear of that town, and I would try not to have to give your mother an explanation.</p><p></p><p>I am remembering all she put you through. I would not want to give her any fodder.</p><p></p><p>I like the idea of asking your brother to invite your parents, makes sense.</p><p></p><p>And then make an especially wonderful plan to substitute for your parents--as an alternative. Something that would really be a treat. I have no idea where you live in the world, but I know what I would do here near me (if one of us wasn't afraid to drive far!!)</p><p></p><p>I would be careful how much and what I told your mother--but only you and your husband know how to handle this.</p><p></p><p>SS, I REMEMBER YOUR MOTHER. You posted on FOO. I will never forget your mothers cruelties and disrespect to you as a couple. <em>Even though we forgive her</em>.</p><p></p><p><em>*</em>Because I am still in bed because I did not expressly forgive my own mother, as she was dying, although she never asked for such. And you posted how your mother turned against you in an alliance with your son. <em>We forgive her; </em>but that does not mean, that we forget.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 703342, member: 18958"] Oh. Now I understand. Well, good. I think I did write a good explanation to use in some future encounter. Smile. Feel free to use it if it ever applies! I agree with your wariness about meeting in that town on that day. Your son could easily guess your plans. While he might not know the time--why worry? Is there a neighboring town, where something might be open? Gosh. I would steer clear of that town, and I would try not to have to give your mother an explanation. I am remembering all she put you through. I would not want to give her any fodder. I like the idea of asking your brother to invite your parents, makes sense. And then make an especially wonderful plan to substitute for your parents--as an alternative. Something that would really be a treat. I have no idea where you live in the world, but I know what I would do here near me (if one of us wasn't afraid to drive far!!) I would be careful how much and what I told your mother--but only you and your husband know how to handle this. SS, I REMEMBER YOUR MOTHER. You posted on FOO. I will never forget your mothers cruelties and disrespect to you as a couple. [I]Even though we forgive her[/I]. [I]*[/I]Because I am still in bed because I did not expressly forgive my own mother, as she was dying, although she never asked for such. And you posted how your mother turned against you in an alliance with your son. [I]We forgive her; [/I]but that does not mean, that we forget. [/QUOTE]
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