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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 506752" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I've gotten his clothes washed- they were clean when packed up but I figured they'd need washing again since they've been packed up for so long. He'll need more clothes because many things (pants/jeans especially) will no longer fit but I can't get them without him going with me because no one knows what size he wears. (He doesn't even know because I asked him. *sigh*) Clothes have to be prepared, as much as possible, whether he goes to gh or home. Money is put aside for him to get stuff for his bedroom but I wasn't doing that until knowing if I'd have to continue paying CS for GH or if he's coming here, and I wanted him to pick out stuff for his bedroom. But the money is here and we can go at any time. SD has rec'd records from Department of Juvenile Justice sd and I have a call in to verify that they have everything they need to schedule the enrollment hearing. I've started comparing prices for medication insurance but am waiting to actually purchase it until finding out if he's officially in my custody, otherwise, an ins co won't touch a kid who's committed to Department of Juvenile Justice. Even medicaid drops them. They give him a physical at Department of Juvenile Justice so he's not coming out with medical needs. I'm thinking if he comes home, I can call VA and get an appointment for family therapy, that way I don't need individual ins on him to get him/us in front of a therapist; my ins will cover it if we call it family therapy, until individual ins kicks in for him.. A family therapist can still spend some time talking to us individually as well as together. He's not on any psychiatric medications so that isn't an issue. Am I overlooking anything? I do need to straighten the house a little but that's no big deal- that's just to make it more "homey".</p><p></p><p>Mind you, PO was supposed to arrange this stuff with sd and MH tx but....don't hold your breath. No big deal- I'm used to doing it for difficult child anyway and doG only knows where difficult child would end up in sd if I hadn't always done it.</p><p></p><p>In any case, this is why a good PO lets a parent know what's going on so a parent can get these things rolling. A po on a power trip or too incompetent, lazy, whatever, sits there like none of it matters. I might have to hide the computer a while or delete some of these things come tomorrow. LOL! Not something I want difficult child to read.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 506752, member: 3699"] I've gotten his clothes washed- they were clean when packed up but I figured they'd need washing again since they've been packed up for so long. He'll need more clothes because many things (pants/jeans especially) will no longer fit but I can't get them without him going with me because no one knows what size he wears. (He doesn't even know because I asked him. *sigh*) Clothes have to be prepared, as much as possible, whether he goes to gh or home. Money is put aside for him to get stuff for his bedroom but I wasn't doing that until knowing if I'd have to continue paying CS for GH or if he's coming here, and I wanted him to pick out stuff for his bedroom. But the money is here and we can go at any time. SD has rec'd records from Department of Juvenile Justice sd and I have a call in to verify that they have everything they need to schedule the enrollment hearing. I've started comparing prices for medication insurance but am waiting to actually purchase it until finding out if he's officially in my custody, otherwise, an ins co won't touch a kid who's committed to Department of Juvenile Justice. Even medicaid drops them. They give him a physical at Department of Juvenile Justice so he's not coming out with medical needs. I'm thinking if he comes home, I can call VA and get an appointment for family therapy, that way I don't need individual ins on him to get him/us in front of a therapist; my ins will cover it if we call it family therapy, until individual ins kicks in for him.. A family therapist can still spend some time talking to us individually as well as together. He's not on any psychiatric medications so that isn't an issue. Am I overlooking anything? I do need to straighten the house a little but that's no big deal- that's just to make it more "homey". Mind you, PO was supposed to arrange this stuff with sd and MH tx but....don't hold your breath. No big deal- I'm used to doing it for difficult child anyway and doG only knows where difficult child would end up in sd if I hadn't always done it. In any case, this is why a good PO lets a parent know what's going on so a parent can get these things rolling. A po on a power trip or too incompetent, lazy, whatever, sits there like none of it matters. I might have to hide the computer a while or delete some of these things come tomorrow. LOL! Not something I want difficult child to read. [/QUOTE]
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