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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 626205" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>Stress,</p><p></p><p>you describe him very clearly:</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I guess the question is, WHY would you have a good relationship with the person you are describing? What would that say about you? How would that affect you day to day? what does a good relationship with some one like that look like? I'll rest on that last question. What does it look like? Maybe you are aspiring to an impossible concept. How can anyone have a good relationship with some one like that?</p><p></p><p>If texts are his major vehicle of harassment, maybe you can ask him to stop texting you. You can let him know that you find the texts distressing and so you won't be accepting them anymore..then you can block them or just not answer them as you see fit.</p><p></p><p>If you can move to a place where phone calls and face to face are the MO of communication, then at least there won't be these one-sided bombs. </p><p></p><p>It's hard, Stress. Its stressful. You are working on seeing it as it is. That is good and healthy work, even though what we see is not what we want to see.</p><p></p><p>I'll follow along and see what you and others have to say while you work on this issue in your life.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p></p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 626205, member: 17269"] Stress, you describe him very clearly: I guess the question is, WHY would you have a good relationship with the person you are describing? What would that say about you? How would that affect you day to day? what does a good relationship with some one like that look like? I'll rest on that last question. What does it look like? Maybe you are aspiring to an impossible concept. How can anyone have a good relationship with some one like that? If texts are his major vehicle of harassment, maybe you can ask him to stop texting you. You can let him know that you find the texts distressing and so you won't be accepting them anymore..then you can block them or just not answer them as you see fit. If you can move to a place where phone calls and face to face are the MO of communication, then at least there won't be these one-sided bombs. It's hard, Stress. Its stressful. You are working on seeing it as it is. That is good and healthy work, even though what we see is not what we want to see. I'll follow along and see what you and others have to say while you work on this issue in your life. Hugs, Echo [/QUOTE]
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