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<blockquote data-quote="TYLERFAN" data-source="post: 7358" data-attributes="member: 26"><p>Hi Lea:</p><p></p><p>I can understand how you feel.</p><p>The woman is probably a very unhappy person who doesn't like herself very much ergo her need to recklessly gossip about others. This type of person is rarely moved by any sort of confrontation, it will just be more "food" for the fodder, if ya know what I mean......</p><p>To harbor hate and resentment about this is only hurting you. I know she has spread ugly rumors about your child, however, do you think confronting this type of person will really stop her? I doubt it. She sounds just like my difficult child's Grandmonster, a hateful, selfish, ignorant person with whom I have had confrontations....Guess what? She is still the same and says and does the same hurtful things to my difficult child. She tells other people these things as well. </p><p>You are right to reduce her to pity...she is pitiful. I wouldn't say anything to the pastor or anyone really. I am sure most people realize what is "up" with her including her husband.</p><p>Don't let this issue rent space in your head. It's not worth it. Your continuing support of difficult child and difficult child's continuing recovery and growth will speak volumes to the community on it's own. You can't "help her see the harm she's done" because she doesn't chose to see it, otherwise she wouldn't be wagging her tongue.</p><p>Your difficult child has made tremendous progress, go out and celebrate that. Surround yourself with positive people and remember....whatever goes around usually comes around......Put it in your Higher Powers' hands.</p><p>Good Luck and great to see you posting again.</p><p></p><p>Blessings,</p><p>Melissa <img src="http://*" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TYLERFAN, post: 7358, member: 26"] Hi Lea: I can understand how you feel. The woman is probably a very unhappy person who doesn't like herself very much ergo her need to recklessly gossip about others. This type of person is rarely moved by any sort of confrontation, it will just be more "food" for the fodder, if ya know what I mean...... To harbor hate and resentment about this is only hurting you. I know she has spread ugly rumors about your child, however, do you think confronting this type of person will really stop her? I doubt it. She sounds just like my difficult child's Grandmonster, a hateful, selfish, ignorant person with whom I have had confrontations....Guess what? She is still the same and says and does the same hurtful things to my difficult child. She tells other people these things as well. You are right to reduce her to pity...she is pitiful. I wouldn't say anything to the pastor or anyone really. I am sure most people realize what is "up" with her including her husband. Don't let this issue rent space in your head. It's not worth it. Your continuing support of difficult child and difficult child's continuing recovery and growth will speak volumes to the community on it's own. You can't "help her see the harm she's done" because she doesn't chose to see it, otherwise she wouldn't be wagging her tongue. Your difficult child has made tremendous progress, go out and celebrate that. Surround yourself with positive people and remember....whatever goes around usually comes around......Put it in your Higher Powers' hands. Good Luck and great to see you posting again. Blessings, Melissa [img]*[/img] [/QUOTE]
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