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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 746678" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Just remember, he is in jail. So he needs you for company and money.</p><p></p><p>If it were me, he would never come home. I will try to explain why....it is not to punish him. </p><p></p><p>But he has had no professional help and even with profesdional help it takes months to years to change at the core. Nobody changes in two weeks.</p><p></p><p> Also in my opinion your husband's desires need to come first. He will be there for you to the end. Realistically your son will probably continue to struggle and will not be there the way you need somebody as one ages. He COULD end up costing you your retirement. You need it.</p><p></p><p>I hope this is a true light bulb moment for your son and that he will accept rehab and psychiatric help once he is out. Those in my opinion are his best options. He cant keep losing it like he did or life will not go well for him.</p><p></p><p>Have a peaceful night. Your son was not on drugs and you got to see a bit of him sober. Smile at this blessing.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and love!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 746678, member: 1550"] Just remember, he is in jail. So he needs you for company and money. If it were me, he would never come home. I will try to explain why....it is not to punish him. But he has had no professional help and even with profesdional help it takes months to years to change at the core. Nobody changes in two weeks. Also in my opinion your husband's desires need to come first. He will be there for you to the end. Realistically your son will probably continue to struggle and will not be there the way you need somebody as one ages. He COULD end up costing you your retirement. You need it. I hope this is a true light bulb moment for your son and that he will accept rehab and psychiatric help once he is out. Those in my opinion are his best options. He cant keep losing it like he did or life will not go well for him. Have a peaceful night. Your son was not on drugs and you got to see a bit of him sober. Smile at this blessing. Hugs and love! [/QUOTE]
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