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<blockquote data-quote="Halogen Lights" data-source="post: 724218" data-attributes="member: 22536"><p>In the past, my daughter had a townhome at age 22. She was great at upholding that initially and then as the years progressed, the company she worked with dropped all the women managers in the region for remote male managers and shift laborers in the stores. Being jobless she went into a depression. I paid the mortgage, utilities, etc. with a friend for a long time. She eventually sold the townhome and relocated with her daughter. Today, though, it is as if this never occurred and she says I never did anything for her.</p><p></p><p>If you continue to help (I know it is hard not to under the circumstances) - you need to draw up paperwork and record all payments with an agreement toward reimbursement. Make her acknowledge and sign an agreement that plainly states you are aiding her to get on her feet. That is "if" you have the resources. I've suffered business-wise and personally for providing while my life things were tight.</p><p></p><p>It is hard to put an adult child with a disability out - has she applied for disability? is she receiving Medicaid? I would opt for programs and introduce her to same and then if not accepted do what is necessary.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Halogen Lights, post: 724218, member: 22536"] In the past, my daughter had a townhome at age 22. She was great at upholding that initially and then as the years progressed, the company she worked with dropped all the women managers in the region for remote male managers and shift laborers in the stores. Being jobless she went into a depression. I paid the mortgage, utilities, etc. with a friend for a long time. She eventually sold the townhome and relocated with her daughter. Today, though, it is as if this never occurred and she says I never did anything for her. If you continue to help (I know it is hard not to under the circumstances) - you need to draw up paperwork and record all payments with an agreement toward reimbursement. Make her acknowledge and sign an agreement that plainly states you are aiding her to get on her feet. That is "if" you have the resources. I've suffered business-wise and personally for providing while my life things were tight. It is hard to put an adult child with a disability out - has she applied for disability? is she receiving Medicaid? I would opt for programs and introduce her to same and then if not accepted do what is necessary. [/QUOTE]
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