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We don't know what to do 22 year old son
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<blockquote data-quote="Seeking Peace" data-source="post: 663541" data-attributes="member: 19374"><p>Quicksand,</p><p></p><p>I absolutely agree with everyone's input. As I read your post, all I kept thinking is he has no respect for any of you. Then I wondered why you would pay for not only school, but an apartment too (to which he is clearly ungrateful considering he called it a dump). But I know why. I totally understand why you would, and many of us have continued to...we just want them to be okay. We think if we do this, or do that....maybe it will turn out differently. It won't. It will not be different until he wants it to be. Then only HE can make it right. Love him. Stop enabling. I know it's easier said then done. But it's essential.</p><p></p><p>Let me just say this...keeping your son in your house, or in an apartment will not keep him any safer than him bouncing between friend's houses, shelters, etc. He does the same behaviors right in front of you. So, release that worry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Seeking Peace, post: 663541, member: 19374"] Quicksand, I absolutely agree with everyone's input. As I read your post, all I kept thinking is he has no respect for any of you. Then I wondered why you would pay for not only school, but an apartment too (to which he is clearly ungrateful considering he called it a dump). But I know why. I totally understand why you would, and many of us have continued to...we just want them to be okay. We think if we do this, or do that....maybe it will turn out differently. It won't. It will not be different until he wants it to be. Then only HE can make it right. Love him. Stop enabling. I know it's easier said then done. But it's essential. Let me just say this...keeping your son in your house, or in an apartment will not keep him any safer than him bouncing between friend's houses, shelters, etc. He does the same behaviors right in front of you. So, release that worry. [/QUOTE]
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