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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 766392" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Hello and welcome. You might try a group called Families Anonymous. Google for meeting locations. They also do on-line groups.&nbsp; Be careful not to let this situation get between you and your husband. Is he the father? Great that you have read the detachment article. Perhaps read more on the topic. You might consider what is the bare minimum you are willing to do and can afford to do and for how long and nothing more. I don't know what the right answer is. Does he provide any proof to you that he has applied to jobs? Perhaps you should consider that as a requirement. But, since this has been going on approx a year and he’s 25…it’s concerning and it sounds like you do have to give this thought. At some point, you likely need to cut back or stop. I know it is very hard. Be sure to find time for yourself and spouse and to enjoy life even with this difficulty in the back ground. It’s important.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 766392, member: 4152"] Hello and welcome. You might try a group called Families Anonymous. Google for meeting locations. They also do on-line groups. Be careful not to let this situation get between you and your husband. Is he the father? Great that you have read the detachment article. Perhaps read more on the topic. You might consider what is the bare minimum you are willing to do and can afford to do and for how long and nothing more. I don't know what the right answer is. Does he provide any proof to you that he has applied to jobs? Perhaps you should consider that as a requirement. But, since this has been going on approx a year and he’s 25…it’s concerning and it sounds like you do have to give this thought. At some point, you likely need to cut back or stop. I know it is very hard. Be sure to find time for yourself and spouse and to enjoy life even with this difficulty in the back ground. It’s important. [/QUOTE]

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