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<blockquote data-quote="Bettyboo44" data-source="post: 766411" data-attributes="member: 33737">I stumbled across this site only 7 weeks ago&nbsp; when I had reached a point with my sons whereby I felt the only way I’d ever escape the chaos that came with them was to get out of this world myself. I had reached a point where I simply felt I just couldn’t possibly carry on this living hell. I don’t have one family member or friend who has ever truly listened&nbsp; (as in wanting to hear what I have to say) , advised me or that are able to relate to my situation.For the first time ever of my 26 years of being&nbsp; a parent, I’m finding the strength and knowledge of what I can do to help me and my sons. Undoubtedly that is mainly thanks to this site. I am beyond grateful to the most incredible bunch of people I have ever encountered. The wisdom, experience, support and pure selflessness on here has given me the tools to allow myself to come first, the strength to say no to my sons, to be able to detach and allow them to be them and me to be me. So Very Drained,&nbsp; I am so glad you have found this site too and am sure you also, will gain so much from the absolute godsends on here <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🙏" title="Folded hands&nbsp; &nbsp; :pray:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f64f.png" data-shortname=":pray:" /> Please don’t despair (I hear the defeat in your messages) Sending hugs <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="💚" title="Green heart&nbsp; &nbsp; :green_heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f49a.png" data-shortname=":green_heart:" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="Bettyboo44, post: 766411, member: 33737"] I stumbled across this site only 7 weeks ago when I had reached a point with my sons whereby I felt the only way I’d ever escape the chaos that came with them was to get out of this world myself. I had reached a point where I simply felt I just couldn’t possibly carry on this living hell. I don’t have one family member or friend who has ever truly listened (as in wanting to hear what I have to say) , advised me or that are able to relate to my situation. For the first time ever of my 26 years of being a parent, I’m finding the strength and knowledge of what I can do to help me and my sons. Undoubtedly that is mainly thanks to this site. I am beyond grateful to the most incredible bunch of people I have ever encountered. The wisdom, experience, support and pure selflessness on here has given me the tools to allow myself to come first, the strength to say no to my sons, to be able to detach and allow them to be them and me to be me. So Very Drained, I am so glad you have found this site too and am sure you also, will gain so much from the absolute godsends on here 🙏 Please don’t despair (I hear the defeat in your messages) Sending hugs 💚 [/QUOTE]

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