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Well I called MHMR and prison SW
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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 334033" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Thanks Witz, husband is going to go to visitation tomorrow and talk to difficult child about his options. husband even suggested to me that we consider taking a loan for 50K and convert one of the out buildings into living space for difficult child so he'd be near but not under the same roof. (That is the building that was supposed to be my art studio... sigh) That plan would also mean a big chunk of our retirement savings going to loan payments instead. Even if I agree to that it is not an immediate fix. It would take a few months to get it all done. </p><p> </p><p>I just feel so defeated and saddened by this situation. If difficult child goes to the halfway house it means a 40 minute drive for me just to help him fill out paper work and search for helpful resources that he can tap into. Yet deep down I do not want him in my back yard or even nearby. It is hard feeling so much turmoil again after a few months of peace. Hard to feel positive and not bitter. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 334033, member: 2315"] Thanks Witz, husband is going to go to visitation tomorrow and talk to difficult child about his options. husband even suggested to me that we consider taking a loan for 50K and convert one of the out buildings into living space for difficult child so he'd be near but not under the same roof. (That is the building that was supposed to be my art studio... sigh) That plan would also mean a big chunk of our retirement savings going to loan payments instead. Even if I agree to that it is not an immediate fix. It would take a few months to get it all done. I just feel so defeated and saddened by this situation. If difficult child goes to the halfway house it means a 40 minute drive for me just to help him fill out paper work and search for helpful resources that he can tap into. Yet deep down I do not want him in my back yard or even nearby. It is hard feeling so much turmoil again after a few months of peace. Hard to feel positive and not bitter. -RM [/QUOTE]
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