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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 334094" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Thank you for your imput ladies. I was not too keen on the idea of difficult child literally in my back yard. He would have to prove alot to me as far as his ability to stay sober and willingness to try and work etc. before I would be onboard with that idea. husband has always been more willing to bring difficult child back here. Of course husband is not the one who would have to deal with it since he is gone most of the week .</p><p> </p><p>Going north what is HHS? I'm not familiar with that abbreviation.</p><p> </p><p>CTmom, I hear you. Unfortunately I cannot find difficult child a case manager he has to do that himself when he gets out. I think he might still think he can make a go of it on his own. If that is the case it is not likely that he will go for services as soon as he gets out. IF he fails to get a job and can't pay his rent then he might be willing to apply but the problem then will be what to do untill the process is completed and services in place. </p><p> </p><p>Flor my part I am hoping that he will go to MHMR right away and somehow convince them to reopen his file. Unfortunately, I have no way of making this happen.</p><p>I can only give advise. He is a legal adult and the decidion as to what services he applies for if any is on him not me. </p><p> </p><p>I was lucky that the supervisor at MHMR used to be his case manager and therefore was familiar with the case. Because of our past history he was willing to talk to me. He also advised me not to bring him into my home since I am alone most of the time. He said that there is a fear that if difficult child goes on a binge he could get violent with me again. I know this would only happen if difficult child doesn't stay sober. He is very remorseful of how badly he injured me. As long as he does stay sober I am in no danger from him. </p><p> </p><p>The supervisor did say that I could call him again when I know more about difficult child's plans but didn't offer anything in the way of services for difficult child. This is one of the nicest men on the planet and I fear that my son has even shut him down with his failure to adhere to any program. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 334094, member: 2315"] Thank you for your imput ladies. I was not too keen on the idea of difficult child literally in my back yard. He would have to prove alot to me as far as his ability to stay sober and willingness to try and work etc. before I would be onboard with that idea. husband has always been more willing to bring difficult child back here. Of course husband is not the one who would have to deal with it since he is gone most of the week . Going north what is HHS? I'm not familiar with that abbreviation. CTmom, I hear you. Unfortunately I cannot find difficult child a case manager he has to do that himself when he gets out. I think he might still think he can make a go of it on his own. If that is the case it is not likely that he will go for services as soon as he gets out. IF he fails to get a job and can't pay his rent then he might be willing to apply but the problem then will be what to do untill the process is completed and services in place. Flor my part I am hoping that he will go to MHMR right away and somehow convince them to reopen his file. Unfortunately, I have no way of making this happen. I can only give advise. He is a legal adult and the decidion as to what services he applies for if any is on him not me. I was lucky that the supervisor at MHMR used to be his case manager and therefore was familiar with the case. Because of our past history he was willing to talk to me. He also advised me not to bring him into my home since I am alone most of the time. He said that there is a fear that if difficult child goes on a binge he could get violent with me again. I know this would only happen if difficult child doesn't stay sober. He is very remorseful of how badly he injured me. As long as he does stay sober I am in no danger from him. The supervisor did say that I could call him again when I know more about difficult child's plans but didn't offer anything in the way of services for difficult child. This is one of the nicest men on the planet and I fear that my son has even shut him down with his failure to adhere to any program. -RM [/QUOTE]
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