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Well, its finally his day in court
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<blockquote data-quote="Nikimoto" data-source="post: 651248" data-attributes="member: 18791"><p>I obviously don't know you or your son, but just from the outside looking in, he lets you help because you keep doing it. I understand about self protection due to cosigning, but he is older than I thought at 19 and you even defended him in court, though he is the wrong, and that tells him it's ok somehow. Let him keep telling you about these things, but I wonder what would happen if you stop jumping through his grimy hoops? If you answer his concerns with more questions such as, "What are you going to do about it?" </p><p>If Evan winds up in court, not only will I not be there, he will not be invited home anytime soon due to shaming our family with his disgusting behavior. He will not find me bailing him out. He will not my support in his self destruction. He knows we want him to take his best chance in life, and that does not include treating me like a safety net when he knows he is in the wrong.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nikimoto, post: 651248, member: 18791"] I obviously don't know you or your son, but just from the outside looking in, he lets you help because you keep doing it. I understand about self protection due to cosigning, but he is older than I thought at 19 and you even defended him in court, though he is the wrong, and that tells him it's ok somehow. Let him keep telling you about these things, but I wonder what would happen if you stop jumping through his grimy hoops? If you answer his concerns with more questions such as, "What are you going to do about it?" If Evan winds up in court, not only will I not be there, he will not be invited home anytime soon due to shaming our family with his disgusting behavior. He will not find me bailing him out. He will not my support in his self destruction. He knows we want him to take his best chance in life, and that does not include treating me like a safety net when he knows he is in the wrong. [/QUOTE]
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