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<blockquote data-quote="saskia" data-source="post: 735536" data-attributes="member: 23198"><p>My 19-year-old son lives with me and today was bad.</p><p>He wanted me to lend him money and I refused (i do not have it to lend) and kicked off creating a row and even going out to the street shouting obscenities at me.</p><p>He called my family, trying to blackmail me and made a row with his girlfriend, blaming me for it all. </p><p>He recently dropped out of university and got a job,then moved in with his older sister,but then refused to give her any money for living expenses, after 4 months. Now he's back with me and threatening me,to expose me as being fake.</p><p>I went through an extreme high conflict divorce, which is not complete yet (after 5 years) and he has taken over where his father left off.</p><p>I have a partner who works away,and is due back tomorrow. He is threating to split me and my partner up etc.. I'm not worried re my partner but i just want peace. I only get peace when i do what my son wants.</p><p>He pays no money into my home and spends his money on himself. </p><p>He says i have to keep him,even though he has more expendable income than me.</p><p>What can i do or say to him,hes totally irrational,i appreciate all help</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="saskia, post: 735536, member: 23198"] My 19-year-old son lives with me and today was bad. He wanted me to lend him money and I refused (i do not have it to lend) and kicked off creating a row and even going out to the street shouting obscenities at me. He called my family, trying to blackmail me and made a row with his girlfriend, blaming me for it all. He recently dropped out of university and got a job,then moved in with his older sister,but then refused to give her any money for living expenses, after 4 months. Now he's back with me and threatening me,to expose me as being fake. I went through an extreme high conflict divorce, which is not complete yet (after 5 years) and he has taken over where his father left off. I have a partner who works away,and is due back tomorrow. He is threating to split me and my partner up etc.. I'm not worried re my partner but i just want peace. I only get peace when i do what my son wants. He pays no money into my home and spends his money on himself. He says i have to keep him,even though he has more expendable income than me. What can i do or say to him,hes totally irrational,i appreciate all help [/QUOTE]
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