You're right about that, Cedar.
My biggest problem is my knee jerk reactions. I just get insane. I honestly don't think that getting insane in reaction is all that bad. When someone dumps a big load of crazy on you it's bound to make you crazy. I just need to not give them the satisfaction of sharing it with them. It continues the dance.
Maybe while they're doing the good old "two step" I'll have to do "The Safety Dance". 
