Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
What have i done so wrong to make my adult daughter dislike me so much?
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 650181" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>Neither have I, and when I told my daughter that (last year when we were speaking), she said, and I quote: "mommy that is so sad, this year we are going to make sure you have the best birthday party ever this year" . Well no plans were made and then at the last minute we went to lunch and my husband paid. On top of that as my birthday got closer, she asked me what I wanted so I told her exactly, it was a Coach purse from Coach online outlet. Even showed the picture of the exact one after SHE asked. So what did she do? She bought another one - for more money - in colors I hate. I have NEVER USED it, because it just pee's me off when I even look at it. Why ask if you are going to do what you want to anyway. I could never figure out if she did it on purpose, but I know her very well and it her "my way, I know better than you what you want, attitude" that made me angry. It would have been better to NOT get many any Coach product than to give me something I didn't want after <em><strong>she asked</strong></em>! GRRRR.......(I believe if someone has no idea of what to give you as a gift, AND THEY ASK YOU, you to tell them, as it is better to let them know than leave them scrambling to find something you may not even want)</p><p></p><p>I think you should purchase the book - but only if you want to learn more about her personality disorder. Personally I made my own by researching my daughters disorder - sociopath - and keep both print copies and in word documents. I don't think giving it to her is a good idea. First of all she isn't going to see herself in it, second, you would be throwing money away because she will likely just toss it and lastly, she is just going to say you are mean and hateful for giving her that type of book. No need to throw gasoline on the fire.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 650181, member: 18366"] Neither have I, and when I told my daughter that (last year when we were speaking), she said, and I quote: "mommy that is so sad, this year we are going to make sure you have the best birthday party ever this year" . Well no plans were made and then at the last minute we went to lunch and my husband paid. On top of that as my birthday got closer, she asked me what I wanted so I told her exactly, it was a Coach purse from Coach online outlet. Even showed the picture of the exact one after SHE asked. So what did she do? She bought another one - for more money - in colors I hate. I have NEVER USED it, because it just pee's me off when I even look at it. Why ask if you are going to do what you want to anyway. I could never figure out if she did it on purpose, but I know her very well and it her "my way, I know better than you what you want, attitude" that made me angry. It would have been better to NOT get many any Coach product than to give me something I didn't want after [I][B]she asked[/B][/I]! GRRRR.......(I believe if someone has no idea of what to give you as a gift, AND THEY ASK YOU, you to tell them, as it is better to let them know than leave them scrambling to find something you may not even want) I think you should purchase the book - but only if you want to learn more about her personality disorder. Personally I made my own by researching my daughters disorder - sociopath - and keep both print copies and in word documents. I don't think giving it to her is a good idea. First of all she isn't going to see herself in it, second, you would be throwing money away because she will likely just toss it and lastly, she is just going to say you are mean and hateful for giving her that type of book. No need to throw gasoline on the fire. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
What have i done so wrong to make my adult daughter dislike me so much?
Top