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What have i done so wrong to make my adult daughter dislike me so much?
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<blockquote data-quote="Lioness" data-source="post: 651445" data-attributes="member: 18827"><p>I haven't replied to anyone for a while as things seemed to calm down. I stopped contacting my daughter & then on my birthday she called & asked me to have grand daughter overnight as her husband was going away & they needed alone time. We picked the baby up & she bought me my favourite chocolates that her Dad used to buy me & haven't had in 16 years as they are very expensive. I was touched & thanked her. We had the baby for 2 nights then my daughter came to pick her up but decided to stay with baby for 2 nights at ours. She avoided conversations with me had just superficial conversations. My son rang to say he wOuld like to take me out on the following Sunday for Mother's Day. It's also his birthday. I stupidly asked my daughter if she was coming. She said probably not as its Mothers Day & she would like to spend the day with the baby instead! Am I stupid or what?!! Her husband is away. It's her brothers birthday I'am her MUM! So I pretended it didn't bother me. Then yesterday I get a call from my son to say that night he'd like to go out to the bar and include his sister but she told him I probably wouldn't babysit as I get home from work around 6.30pm and would be tired so she couldn't go. So I said why doesn't she ask me herself? I then stupidly offered but said she would have to bring baby to me. She declined as she "can't be bothered to drive half an hour to your house" and that her husband would do it. She lied as her husband is away! My other daughter sent me flowers today & a lovely card with loving words. The Borderline (BPD) daughter will just ignore Mother's Day but will also play the victim. </p><p>I must be the most stupid person that ever existed! I was just so grateful to have my Grand daughter. I had a long hard week & thought it only fair for her to bring the baby to me for a change. I had decided to try things on my terms for a change & she didn't like it at all! I am a fool but will continue to try to put up boundaries. Fed up of being a door mat, for sure x</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lioness, post: 651445, member: 18827"] I haven't replied to anyone for a while as things seemed to calm down. I stopped contacting my daughter & then on my birthday she called & asked me to have grand daughter overnight as her husband was going away & they needed alone time. We picked the baby up & she bought me my favourite chocolates that her Dad used to buy me & haven't had in 16 years as they are very expensive. I was touched & thanked her. We had the baby for 2 nights then my daughter came to pick her up but decided to stay with baby for 2 nights at ours. She avoided conversations with me had just superficial conversations. My son rang to say he wOuld like to take me out on the following Sunday for Mother's Day. It's also his birthday. I stupidly asked my daughter if she was coming. She said probably not as its Mothers Day & she would like to spend the day with the baby instead! Am I stupid or what?!! Her husband is away. It's her brothers birthday I'am her MUM! So I pretended it didn't bother me. Then yesterday I get a call from my son to say that night he'd like to go out to the bar and include his sister but she told him I probably wouldn't babysit as I get home from work around 6.30pm and would be tired so she couldn't go. So I said why doesn't she ask me herself? I then stupidly offered but said she would have to bring baby to me. She declined as she "can't be bothered to drive half an hour to your house" and that her husband would do it. She lied as her husband is away! My other daughter sent me flowers today & a lovely card with loving words. The Borderline (BPD) daughter will just ignore Mother's Day but will also play the victim. I must be the most stupid person that ever existed! I was just so grateful to have my Grand daughter. I had a long hard week & thought it only fair for her to bring the baby to me for a change. I had decided to try things on my terms for a change & she didn't like it at all! I am a fool but will continue to try to put up boundaries. Fed up of being a door mat, for sure x [/QUOTE]
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