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What have i done so wrong to make my adult daughter dislike me so much?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 651464" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>It's not you, it's her. You expect her to act like a normal person and she isn't normal and will always be erratic so keep your guard up. If it were me, I'd take my granddaughter when I could, but stay as far away from Daughter as possible. She will confuse you, hurt you, and anger you and wrap you around in circles if you let her. Don't let her. </p><p></p><p>Borderlines think in terms of all good and all bad. There is no such thing to them as a parent who tried and had some good traits and some bad traits, like most kids think about their parents. They are either 100% wonderful or 100% horrible in their black and white thinking. They do this with everyone. They lie a lot too.</p><p></p><p>Best thing you can do for yourself is to learn to detach from her and take your grandchild when grandchild is offered you. It is probably a good idea not to have Daughter stay overnight, but that's JMO. </p><p></p><p>Hugs and hope you have a serene and peaceful night.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 651464, member: 1550"] It's not you, it's her. You expect her to act like a normal person and she isn't normal and will always be erratic so keep your guard up. If it were me, I'd take my granddaughter when I could, but stay as far away from Daughter as possible. She will confuse you, hurt you, and anger you and wrap you around in circles if you let her. Don't let her. Borderlines think in terms of all good and all bad. There is no such thing to them as a parent who tried and had some good traits and some bad traits, like most kids think about their parents. They are either 100% wonderful or 100% horrible in their black and white thinking. They do this with everyone. They lie a lot too. Best thing you can do for yourself is to learn to detach from her and take your grandchild when grandchild is offered you. It is probably a good idea not to have Daughter stay overnight, but that's JMO. Hugs and hope you have a serene and peaceful night. [/QUOTE]
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