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What have i done so wrong to make my adult daughter dislike me so much?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 749281" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Im sorry you feel you have a bad mother, but we are not her. Although all young mothers with adoring littles feel that this dislike from their children will never happen to them because they will do things differently and correctly and lovingly, there are no guarantees. Mothers are not valued as they once were. Family isnt. And you dont know how your child's generation will feel about parents. Each generation tends to be very critical of the one before theirs.</p><p></p><p>And rhen there are those of us who have many grown kids and only one dislikes us and the others love us as much as we love them.TThis is also common.</p><p></p><p>There is no way to make sure your kids will not be unloving. No math problem answer. Society does not value family as it once did. At least not in the U.S. And it isnt going to get any better. So many kids are the product of single parents, divorces, stepfamilies that are not harmonious and parents that work more than spend time with their kids. And of course the falling apart of close extended family. These issues can lead to big resentments. I have seen it. I see it in you.</p><p></p><p>One day your mom will be gone for good and you will never have to see her again.</p><p></p><p>Warning: Your child is watching how you treat your mother. Kids often copy what they see.</p><p></p><p>I hope when your son is a married man he still makes you feel loved and valued. I wish none of this bad stuff on anyone, but it is not uncommon anymore.</p><p></p><p>One thing is true. We all post one side of the story, you also. We have not heard from your mother. </p><p></p><p>Karma is a biotch and nobody is a perfect parent. That includes you. </p><p></p><p>Have a nice day..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 749281, member: 23706"] Im sorry you feel you have a bad mother, but we are not her. Although all young mothers with adoring littles feel that this dislike from their children will never happen to them because they will do things differently and correctly and lovingly, there are no guarantees. Mothers are not valued as they once were. Family isnt. And you dont know how your child's generation will feel about parents. Each generation tends to be very critical of the one before theirs. And rhen there are those of us who have many grown kids and only one dislikes us and the others love us as much as we love them.TThis is also common. There is no way to make sure your kids will not be unloving. No math problem answer. Society does not value family as it once did. At least not in the U.S. And it isnt going to get any better. So many kids are the product of single parents, divorces, stepfamilies that are not harmonious and parents that work more than spend time with their kids. And of course the falling apart of close extended family. These issues can lead to big resentments. I have seen it. I see it in you. One day your mom will be gone for good and you will never have to see her again. Warning: Your child is watching how you treat your mother. Kids often copy what they see. I hope when your son is a married man he still makes you feel loved and valued. I wish none of this bad stuff on anyone, but it is not uncommon anymore. One thing is true. We all post one side of the story, you also. We have not heard from your mother. Karma is a biotch and nobody is a perfect parent. That includes you. Have a nice day.. [/QUOTE]
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