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<blockquote data-quote="Tired out" data-source="post: 745048" data-attributes="member: 23103"><p>No, he never had it rough. Still doesn't by a lot of peoples standards.</p><p></p><p>I also can't say I "feel sorry" for him about the bit with the phone/cop. I was annoyed by it when I found out the outcome that we weren't informed of. </p><p></p><p>In no way does he play me against his dad. I have told him he is an idiot and needs to grow up and get over the lies he is telling himself about his teenage years. </p><p></p><p></p><p>I did feel bad for him over what happened with the job he was going to , that he had already done all the preliminary paperwork and medical physical, tests, and aptitude tests that they required. he did the right thing giving notice, bet he doesn't give notice again, he will just leave on his last day and not go back. </p><p></p><p> So overall I can't say I feel sorry for him. I am hopeful he grows up and out of being such a jerk. Apparently he reserves his attitude for us. But no I am not going to disown him,or completely cut him out of my life. I wouldn't give a bean about who said to do that. On the same note I also won't let him move back in here. When he first moved out Hubs wanted a safe and a security system to monitor the house in case he moved back in. I bought both things but I also told him I didn't want Ben living here. I was shocked when at first he said ok to the 2 weeks till they could get into the apartment. Then the dog and girlfriend thing came up and he said no. That's Ben, get an inch and go for the mile! </p><p>He hasn't had anything disrespectful to say since he moved out. He just declines any invitations such as Thanksgiving and Christmas. Says he doesn't want to talk to or be around dad. Personally (i may be way off base) I think he knows what an ass he was and hasn't figured out a way around it. His dad says that he can come here he just wants warning so he can make sure certain items are locked up. He says he forgives him but he doesn't trust hi, I don't either, he has to earn that and he won't get to live here to earn it. Truth.. I think we enjoyed the holiday's more than if he was here. Except for the "friend" we had over and That will never happen again. She has been deleted. Easy for me to delete people I am not related too. </p><p></p><p>SWOT, Personally I am heartbroken for your daughter. for such horrible things to happen to her is awful. I hope that dreg is dead or rotting in jail somewhere, better yet is suffering from a horrible form of cancer. I am sad for the way your childhood was too. I know you don't ask for sympathy for it but, it is sad. I can't say everything about my childhood was perfect but I did have wonderful (not perfect) parents and grandparents, 3 sisters I love to the moon and back (even if at times 2 of them are exasperating) and a fun extended family.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tired out, post: 745048, member: 23103"] No, he never had it rough. Still doesn't by a lot of peoples standards. I also can't say I "feel sorry" for him about the bit with the phone/cop. I was annoyed by it when I found out the outcome that we weren't informed of. In no way does he play me against his dad. I have told him he is an idiot and needs to grow up and get over the lies he is telling himself about his teenage years. I did feel bad for him over what happened with the job he was going to , that he had already done all the preliminary paperwork and medical physical, tests, and aptitude tests that they required. he did the right thing giving notice, bet he doesn't give notice again, he will just leave on his last day and not go back. So overall I can't say I feel sorry for him. I am hopeful he grows up and out of being such a jerk. Apparently he reserves his attitude for us. But no I am not going to disown him,or completely cut him out of my life. I wouldn't give a bean about who said to do that. On the same note I also won't let him move back in here. When he first moved out Hubs wanted a safe and a security system to monitor the house in case he moved back in. I bought both things but I also told him I didn't want Ben living here. I was shocked when at first he said ok to the 2 weeks till they could get into the apartment. Then the dog and girlfriend thing came up and he said no. That's Ben, get an inch and go for the mile! He hasn't had anything disrespectful to say since he moved out. He just declines any invitations such as Thanksgiving and Christmas. Says he doesn't want to talk to or be around dad. Personally (i may be way off base) I think he knows what an ass he was and hasn't figured out a way around it. His dad says that he can come here he just wants warning so he can make sure certain items are locked up. He says he forgives him but he doesn't trust hi, I don't either, he has to earn that and he won't get to live here to earn it. Truth.. I think we enjoyed the holiday's more than if he was here. Except for the "friend" we had over and That will never happen again. She has been deleted. Easy for me to delete people I am not related too. SWOT, Personally I am heartbroken for your daughter. for such horrible things to happen to her is awful. I hope that dreg is dead or rotting in jail somewhere, better yet is suffering from a horrible form of cancer. I am sad for the way your childhood was too. I know you don't ask for sympathy for it but, it is sad. I can't say everything about my childhood was perfect but I did have wonderful (not perfect) parents and grandparents, 3 sisters I love to the moon and back (even if at times 2 of them are exasperating) and a fun extended family. [/QUOTE]
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