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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 578124" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, here it goes.</p><p></p><p>If she is jealous of your new girlfriend and your daughter matters to you more than the girlfriend, the best thing you can do is see your girlfriend without living with her. And don't talk about your relationship with this woman. Your daughter doesn't care or want to know and it may not be out of selfishness...it may be a deep hurt. There may be no other way to mend your relationship with your daughters. You can't force her not to be jealous of a new lady if you lavish attention on the woman or she doesn't like her or she still has not recovered from your divorce. Are you willing to tell SO to move out? It could help. If you feel it is good for you to have SO in your life, then you need to make a decision. Another thing: If SO is much, much younger than you, close to daughter's age, I totally understand your daughter's resentment. Even though Mom left, she has to see you kissing up this new woman and has to hear you making love to her...in my opinion, not a good idea considering your daughter's special makeup. She is not ready for it, 20 years old or not. You can dismiss your daughter, of course, she IS an adult. But it doesn't seem as if you are ready to let her go for your lady. Decisions, decisions.</p><p>Question to think about: Would you want to hear your daughter in the bedroom next door making love with some guy you didn't know or like?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 578124, member: 1550"] Well, here it goes. If she is jealous of your new girlfriend and your daughter matters to you more than the girlfriend, the best thing you can do is see your girlfriend without living with her. And don't talk about your relationship with this woman. Your daughter doesn't care or want to know and it may not be out of selfishness...it may be a deep hurt. There may be no other way to mend your relationship with your daughters. You can't force her not to be jealous of a new lady if you lavish attention on the woman or she doesn't like her or she still has not recovered from your divorce. Are you willing to tell SO to move out? It could help. If you feel it is good for you to have SO in your life, then you need to make a decision. Another thing: If SO is much, much younger than you, close to daughter's age, I totally understand your daughter's resentment. Even though Mom left, she has to see you kissing up this new woman and has to hear you making love to her...in my opinion, not a good idea considering your daughter's special makeup. She is not ready for it, 20 years old or not. You can dismiss your daughter, of course, she IS an adult. But it doesn't seem as if you are ready to let her go for your lady. Decisions, decisions. Question to think about: Would you want to hear your daughter in the bedroom next door making love with some guy you didn't know or like? [/QUOTE]
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