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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 579221" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>Ditto what Lisa said. My H has always been a part of my girls' lives...that said, it didn't make it easier when easy child walked in on us having sex and got a full frontal view of H....omg, embarrassing for all. I spoke with her, or tried to, and she didn't want to. I let it go. She was not resentful in any way and got over it and it certainly did not scar her! She's actually close with her stepdad. </p><p></p><p>difficult child, on the other hand, has been resentful of H since her teen years when she got it into her head that get biodad was wronged by me. No matter what, H was the villain. She has gotten over that thankfully!</p><p></p><p>in my opinion, I think you need to take a step back and not make any apologies. She's an adult and needs to get over it and accept that after a certain amount of time you are entitled to have an adult relationship. You would do well to practice some discretion but you definitely do not owe your daughter an apology or explanation. Just my 2 cents. </p><p></p><p>Carry on...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 579221, member: 2211"] Ditto what Lisa said. My H has always been a part of my girls' lives...that said, it didn't make it easier when easy child walked in on us having sex and got a full frontal view of H....omg, embarrassing for all. I spoke with her, or tried to, and she didn't want to. I let it go. She was not resentful in any way and got over it and it certainly did not scar her! She's actually close with her stepdad. difficult child, on the other hand, has been resentful of H since her teen years when she got it into her head that get biodad was wronged by me. No matter what, H was the villain. She has gotten over that thankfully! in my opinion, I think you need to take a step back and not make any apologies. She's an adult and needs to get over it and accept that after a certain amount of time you are entitled to have an adult relationship. You would do well to practice some discretion but you definitely do not owe your daughter an apology or explanation. Just my 2 cents. Carry on... [/QUOTE]
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