Hello parents,
Thanks in advance for listening and any advice you have to give. I've been reading for a while till I feel like I almost know some of you.
I have a 17 year old son with a diagnoses of "anxiety" who uses pot as his (illegal) "medicine". He has been difficult since he was a baby. Some of his issues over the past years have been:
Thanks for reading if you got through this, if you have any input I am all ears.
Thanks in advance for listening and any advice you have to give. I've been reading for a while till I feel like I almost know some of you.
I have a 17 year old son with a diagnoses of "anxiety" who uses pot as his (illegal) "medicine". He has been difficult since he was a baby. Some of his issues over the past years have been:
- hates having his haircut (hairs falling and scratching his neck)
- very picky eater
- sensitivity to fabric
- easily melts down
- MAJOR biter as a toddler
- school anxiety
- habitual truant junior year--left school to "smoke"
- little ability to keep a job (does not like to be told what to do--for example if his boss tells him to get off his phone he can't deal) Also at current job freaked out because people he knew came in and SAW him--omg--horror!
- in past, obsession with avoiding germs (would wash his hands raw in 7th grade-had a fit once until I made a special trip to the store for hand sanitizer), wouldn't shake people's hands, etc..
- very particular about clothing, can't have lint on it or smell too strongly of detergant
- difficulty with certain sounds like car windshield wiper/windows rolled down
- "addiction" to computer games--smallworlds, minecraft, etc...to the exclusion of EVERYTHING ELSE, not currently as computer is broken. Other "addictions" throughout the year have included Pokemon, becoming a bodybuilder (we had to then go out and buy EVERYTHING for his new obsession), etc...etc...etc....Currently obsessed with marijuana and "accessories" for smoking it.
- little ability to focus on schoolwork
- Very smart in certain areas like computers and math, but extreme difficulty with spelling, foreign language and analyzing of books and literature.
- Things have to be a certain way--HIS WAY--or he freaks out and has a "tantrum"
- if he's into something, he puts in 100%, but then moves onto the next thing very suddenly.
Thanks for reading if you got through this, if you have any input I am all ears.
