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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 677507" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi Okie, good to see your post. How is your Achilles heel? Hope you are able to get around better now.</p><p></p><p>There is nothing wrong with you. I have been at the same point you have. Heard so many stories, lies, stolen from and been blamed for everything under the sun. Went through a time when my head and heart were just spinning from it all. I was living as if my life depended on my two getting better. It hurt and drove me near crazy, the road they were, and still are on.</p><p>Then one day I woke up. Woke up and said what the heck am I doing? </p><p>That's when I started to feel like how you are feeling. Not numb, but <em>nothing</em>. I love my two, but it was like going from one extreme to the other. Stuck and enmeshed with all of the drama and chaos, to numb. I think we all go through different stages when we hit this point. A heart and mind can only take so much abuse. Maybe it is shock?</p><p>I don't know Okie, but it is a part of the road to recovery from the sickness called enabling that we got used to with our d cs.</p><p></p><p>You are calling the shots with your feelings and response now. YOU. This is great. Our d cs would yank our chains, expecting us to drop everything and come running and we did, most times. Now we see the ridiculous lengths we went to.</p><p> No more. </p><p>This is your life, your time.</p><p>Don't crawl under a rock Okie, </p><p>get out there and grab your life back.</p><p> Do something good for you.</p><p></p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 677507, member: 19522"] Hi Okie, good to see your post. How is your Achilles heel? Hope you are able to get around better now. There is nothing wrong with you. I have been at the same point you have. Heard so many stories, lies, stolen from and been blamed for everything under the sun. Went through a time when my head and heart were just spinning from it all. I was living as if my life depended on my two getting better. It hurt and drove me near crazy, the road they were, and still are on. Then one day I woke up. Woke up and said what the heck am I doing? That's when I started to feel like how you are feeling. Not numb, but [I]nothing[/I]. I love my two, but it was like going from one extreme to the other. Stuck and enmeshed with all of the drama and chaos, to numb. I think we all go through different stages when we hit this point. A heart and mind can only take so much abuse. Maybe it is shock? I don't know Okie, but it is a part of the road to recovery from the sickness called enabling that we got used to with our d cs. You are calling the shots with your feelings and response now. YOU. This is great. Our d cs would yank our chains, expecting us to drop everything and come running and we did, most times. Now we see the ridiculous lengths we went to. No more. This is your life, your time. Don't crawl under a rock Okie, get out there and grab your life back. Do something good for you. (((Hugs))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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