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What is your relationship like with your 1st cousins?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 737553" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Wish, thank you. My mother was Queen and the others followed her. They dont think they did but they did. My sister was very neglected and now claims to have attachment disorder. I think she does, but she is blaming it a lot on me. I teased her a lot as a kid. But my mother let me do it. My mom was negligent in the nurture department to us all. She ignored my sister and screamed at me. My brother was the only one she liked really and he has never had a live in long term relationship so I have to believe he has attachment issues too. I am the only one with a healthy husband and family. Thank you, Grandma.</p><p></p><p>I stopped trying to figure out my sister years ago. I am happy and she is not. I have no desire to diagnose her....however it is no secret she has had anorexia most of her life and i fear one of her kids does too. But maybe not. Not my business. I worried about this kid having it for many years. Lots of over excerising and my sister has never eaten a full meal in front of me. If she weighs 100 lbs. she diets. I blame this on my mothers lack of attention to her.</p><p></p><p>My sister can't NOT blame my mother. My mother did get close to her later on. But the damage was done. </p><p></p><p>Anyhow I ended up in the best place of all. Maybe she is jealous. Maybe she is confused. Maybe....who cares. I do feel sorry for her life, but she caused it. She left her husband, she dated a married man and many others who could not love her, especially her latest loser of eight years.</p><p></p><p>I get tired thinking about all that.</p><p></p><p>She doesnt have to like me. I dont have to like her. She is just a DNA connection who is not a part of my.loving family. I wish her well. I dont like it when she is sad. Also I never ever would have thought to call the cops on her just because i was mad at her.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>Worst part for her she is 58 and first starting therapy . Time is not on her side for learning how to love and finding it. I dont know why she didnt go earlier. I did. My brother did. Maybe she thought anorexia and intimacy problems were normal. I cant help sadly feeling that it is too late for her to have that great life I have.</p><p>.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 737553, member: 1550"] Wish, thank you. My mother was Queen and the others followed her. They dont think they did but they did. My sister was very neglected and now claims to have attachment disorder. I think she does, but she is blaming it a lot on me. I teased her a lot as a kid. But my mother let me do it. My mom was negligent in the nurture department to us all. She ignored my sister and screamed at me. My brother was the only one she liked really and he has never had a live in long term relationship so I have to believe he has attachment issues too. I am the only one with a healthy husband and family. Thank you, Grandma. I stopped trying to figure out my sister years ago. I am happy and she is not. I have no desire to diagnose her....however it is no secret she has had anorexia most of her life and i fear one of her kids does too. But maybe not. Not my business. I worried about this kid having it for many years. Lots of over excerising and my sister has never eaten a full meal in front of me. If she weighs 100 lbs. she diets. I blame this on my mothers lack of attention to her. My sister can't NOT blame my mother. My mother did get close to her later on. But the damage was done. Anyhow I ended up in the best place of all. Maybe she is jealous. Maybe she is confused. Maybe....who cares. I do feel sorry for her life, but she caused it. She left her husband, she dated a married man and many others who could not love her, especially her latest loser of eight years. I get tired thinking about all that. She doesnt have to like me. I dont have to like her. She is just a DNA connection who is not a part of my.loving family. I wish her well. I dont like it when she is sad. Also I never ever would have thought to call the cops on her just because i was mad at her. Worst part for her she is 58 and first starting therapy . Time is not on her side for learning how to love and finding it. I dont know why she didnt go earlier. I did. My brother did. Maybe she thought anorexia and intimacy problems were normal. I cant help sadly feeling that it is too late for her to have that great life I have. . [/QUOTE]
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