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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 422918" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Hello again toughlovin...I too will be thinking of you during your lunch today. I suggest you remember that FEAR=False Evidence Appearing Real. </p><p></p><p>I love Hounddogs suggestion of being armed with homeless shelter numbers. Another agency (if pregnancy involved) is Crisis Pregnancy Center. And if it's only money they want your idea of groceries or gas is perfect. </p><p></p><p>One thing I have just begun to see regarding my young difficult child and his wife and my 2 grandchildren is that difficult child has time and time again used the grandbabies for personal gain from both husband and I as well as his wides mom and wealthy great grandma. Of course all of us meant well but you see where my young difficult child is now in his life and neither difficult child or wife are any better off for it. In fact I now believe all of our "help" has really only hindered their growth. </p><p></p><p>Directing them towards supportive agency's from the get go may ultimately help them become more self sufficient in the long run...of course being on the same page with girlfriend"s mother might be a good idea too because the other thing our difficult child and wife have done is to use one parents "giving tree" against the other to make us feel like we're not doing our part. Truly we have only reinforced the concept of "using" to get what you want. </p><p></p><p>Thinking of you and will look forward to update</p><p>Tammy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 422918, member: 3305"] Hello again toughlovin...I too will be thinking of you during your lunch today. I suggest you remember that FEAR=False Evidence Appearing Real. I love Hounddogs suggestion of being armed with homeless shelter numbers. Another agency (if pregnancy involved) is Crisis Pregnancy Center. And if it's only money they want your idea of groceries or gas is perfect. One thing I have just begun to see regarding my young difficult child and his wife and my 2 grandchildren is that difficult child has time and time again used the grandbabies for personal gain from both husband and I as well as his wides mom and wealthy great grandma. Of course all of us meant well but you see where my young difficult child is now in his life and neither difficult child or wife are any better off for it. In fact I now believe all of our "help" has really only hindered their growth. Directing them towards supportive agency's from the get go may ultimately help them become more self sufficient in the long run...of course being on the same page with girlfriend"s mother might be a good idea too because the other thing our difficult child and wife have done is to use one parents "giving tree" against the other to make us feel like we're not doing our part. Truly we have only reinforced the concept of "using" to get what you want. Thinking of you and will look forward to update Tammy [/QUOTE]
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