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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 622601" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Alb, it's "don't create a crisis." And we can do that with confrontation and getting in their face and asking a lot of questions (that we already know the answers, to, really) and demanding and pushing and trying to control and manage.</p><p></p><p>I've been afraid of that too. I didn't want to MAKE something bad happen. For goodness sake, it's already bad enough.</p><p></p><p>But I do believe we can walk a line of quiet truth-telling, just a bit at first, just our toe in the water. Just writing it down, as I did for months. I would read it right off the page. I didn't trust myself to say anything else in the heat of the moment (my heat, not his). </p><p></p><p>Now, I am venturing away from a script. I am testing now, my own ability to say something true, but quietly, directly, firmly not yelling or in his face.</p><p></p><p>We'll see, Alb. This is new territory for me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 622601, member: 17542"] Alb, it's "don't create a crisis." And we can do that with confrontation and getting in their face and asking a lot of questions (that we already know the answers, to, really) and demanding and pushing and trying to control and manage. I've been afraid of that too. I didn't want to MAKE something bad happen. For goodness sake, it's already bad enough. But I do believe we can walk a line of quiet truth-telling, just a bit at first, just our toe in the water. Just writing it down, as I did for months. I would read it right off the page. I didn't trust myself to say anything else in the heat of the moment (my heat, not his). Now, I am venturing away from a script. I am testing now, my own ability to say something true, but quietly, directly, firmly not yelling or in his face. We'll see, Alb. This is new territory for me. [/QUOTE]
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