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When is it time to give up?y chi
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<blockquote data-quote="goldenguru" data-source="post: 91609" data-attributes="member: 1545"><p>My overriding thought is that a relationship must involve two people. Even dysfunctional relationships involve two people. </p><p></p><p>From the sound of your post there is only one person willing to be involved in this relationship. So from that perspective, a relationship is impossible.</p><p></p><p>I think if it were me, I would sit down and compose a thoughtful letter. I would reassure your son that you love him and desire to be a part of his life. But, that you are getting certain 'vibes' from him that are leaving you bewildered. Then I would leave the ball in his court.</p><p></p><p>He is a grown man. If you are getting strong signals I certainly would not chase after him and beg for him to be involved in your life. Give him the space he appears to desire.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry. I really am.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="goldenguru, post: 91609, member: 1545"] My overriding thought is that a relationship must involve two people. Even dysfunctional relationships involve two people. From the sound of your post there is only one person willing to be involved in this relationship. So from that perspective, a relationship is impossible. I think if it were me, I would sit down and compose a thoughtful letter. I would reassure your son that you love him and desire to be a part of his life. But, that you are getting certain 'vibes' from him that are leaving you bewildered. Then I would leave the ball in his court. He is a grown man. If you are getting strong signals I certainly would not chase after him and beg for him to be involved in your life. Give him the space he appears to desire. I'm sorry. I really am. [/QUOTE]
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