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When you take the place of the real abuser in your abusers life
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 666997" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Well, in looking for emails from my sister, I found this painful exchange. They kind of speak for themselves. Still hurts.</p><p></p><p>Dear Sister</p><p></p><p>There will be a very short, simple acknowledgement of Mama's death on Friday night with the small Jewish congregation here in xxx and the Rabbi that comes here. I am sorry for the late notice but it was just confirmed. Should you want to attend, let me know, and I will help with arrangements. </p><p></p><p>COPA</p><p></p><p></p><p>Dear COPA (insert please my real name here)</p><p></p><p></p><p>Thank you for letting me know about the service. And thank you for taking care of mom in her last illness.</p><p></p><p>It’s impossible for me to forget that the last time I saw you, at the hospital in LA, you said it had to be either you or me taking care of mom, not the both of us. Unfortunately, mom then had to choose between the two of us and she choose you. And I have had to learn to live with the decision that both of you made. We will do our own service for mom.</p><p></p><p>Best,</p><p></p><p>Sister</p><p>___</p><p></p><p>I am struck by how well it fits into the theme of this thread.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 666997, member: 18958"] Well, in looking for emails from my sister, I found this painful exchange. They kind of speak for themselves. Still hurts. Dear Sister There will be a very short, simple acknowledgement of Mama's death on Friday night with the small Jewish congregation here in xxx and the Rabbi that comes here. I am sorry for the late notice but it was just confirmed. Should you want to attend, let me know, and I will help with arrangements. COPA Dear COPA (insert please my real name here) Thank you for letting me know about the service. And thank you for taking care of mom in her last illness. It’s impossible for me to forget that the last time I saw you, at the hospital in LA, you said it had to be either you or me taking care of mom, not the both of us. Unfortunately, mom then had to choose between the two of us and she choose you. And I have had to learn to live with the decision that both of you made. We will do our own service for mom. Best, Sister ___ I am struck by how well it fits into the theme of this thread. [/QUOTE]
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