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When you take the place of the real abuser in your abusers life
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 667002" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I am struck re-reading the email from my sister (painfully), the similarities to Daphne. She is either completely unhinged or she is lying to inflict the maximum pain. </p><p> </p><p>Not one word is true. </p><p></p><p>You both know me by now that I am not in the slightest bit assertive. That I abhor conflict...and run from it...unless I am a bystander who can watch from under the bed. Or I lose my temper with M.</p><p></p><p>You know I would never have the courage or the desire to insist upon or force my mother to choose.</p><p></p><p>You know, in fact, my whole adult life I ceded the relationship to my sister. And allowed her to have first, second and third dibs. My relationship with my mother existed only on the margins.</p><p></p><p>Still, I cannot understand this email. She knows as well as anybody else, what my personality is, what my role in the family has been and was. She knows that none of this happened. What is her win?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 667002, member: 18958"] I am struck re-reading the email from my sister (painfully), the similarities to Daphne. She is either completely unhinged or she is lying to inflict the maximum pain. Not one word is true. You both know me by now that I am not in the slightest bit assertive. That I abhor conflict...and run from it...unless I am a bystander who can watch from under the bed. Or I lose my temper with M. You know I would never have the courage or the desire to insist upon or force my mother to choose. You know, in fact, my whole adult life I ceded the relationship to my sister. And allowed her to have first, second and third dibs. My relationship with my mother existed only on the margins. Still, I cannot understand this email. She knows as well as anybody else, what my personality is, what my role in the family has been and was. She knows that none of this happened. What is her win? [/QUOTE]
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