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When you take the place of the real abuser in your abusers life
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 667019" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This is why it matters guys. Still. I feel bad, for one. It hurts me, still. When she tries to hurt me. It still hurts. </p><p></p><p>It is the same dynamic we have posted about for the longest time. We know they are lying. We were there. Whether it was mother/sister. We were there. There is something, still, about, if they say it, (I) need to accept it, her truth as somehow higher than mine. </p><p></p><p>Because it is still there: Why would they say it about it about me, if if were not true? </p><p></p><p>I do not know why I cannot get rid of that.</p><p></p><p>I still need for you guys to say, "she is so mean," or "how could she hurt you like that." </p><p></p><p>I am still invested in being her victim. And I do not know why.</p><p></p><p>I guess I still do not feel anybody believes me, either. I am glad we had Daphne come to visit us so we could bear witness to a "sister" in real life.</p><p></p><p>I am still giving away my power.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 667019, member: 18958"] This is why it matters guys. Still. I feel bad, for one. It hurts me, still. When she tries to hurt me. It still hurts. It is the same dynamic we have posted about for the longest time. We know they are lying. We were there. Whether it was mother/sister. We were there. There is something, still, about, if they say it, (I) need to accept it, her truth as somehow higher than mine. Because it is still there: Why would they say it about it about me, if if were not true? I do not know why I cannot get rid of that. I still need for you guys to say, "she is so mean," or "how could she hurt you like that." I am still invested in being her victim. And I do not know why. I guess I still do not feel anybody believes me, either. I am glad we had Daphne come to visit us so we could bear witness to a "sister" in real life. I am still giving away my power. [/QUOTE]
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