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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 724138" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Al anon deals with substance abuse. It would not meet your needs and many people may be horrified and turn him in.Do not bring it up there!!!</p><p></p><p>The bottom line is, our adopted son had a compassionate caseworker, but my son was still charged in court and put into residential. Regardless of why your son is like he is, being abused himself and talking about it may greatly help his understanding, but he will possibly still be seen as a threat to Daughter and even neighborhood kids. Just like no doubt most rspists were abused, that doesnt take the punishment out of the crime. Sexual stuff is probably taken more seriously than any other childhood issue. Hope for the best, but do be prepared.</p><p></p><p>In the end, I repeat, if you know son's urges and do not act, cps could find you ufit to protect ALL of your kids and remoe them all and even lawyers have a hot bed of hell trying to reverse that decision by the courts, who normally follow the cps ruling. Is it fair? Not always. Life isnt fair. We know this.</p><p>But withholding your son's info can only make things worse. You can get in legal trouble too if you withhold and your son touches, say, a neighbor boy or young school child. He is a minor and he will likely be taken to a facility for help, but you could lose all your kids and even face legal charges for not protecting them. And what if you find out he HAS acted on it? You dont know if he has. Cps is brutal on these things and, as a government agency, extremely powerful.</p><p></p><p>Your son needs help and this is critical. His urges and masturbating into towels then washing himself with the towel IS NOT NORMAL. Nor is his liking of seeing baby boy parts. Or his ideas about poop.</p><p></p><p>For the third time I urge you to do what you know hasto happen so that he and the rest of you can get help before something bigger happens. In fact, you dont know for sure that nothing has.</p><p></p><p>A professional has to deal with this. Its above your ability.</p><p></p><p>If you hide it further and worse happens, at least you were warned. I ferl that you now realize the need to help your son and to be honest.</p><p></p><p>Tons of courage and luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 724138, member: 1550"] Al anon deals with substance abuse. It would not meet your needs and many people may be horrified and turn him in.Do not bring it up there!!! The bottom line is, our adopted son had a compassionate caseworker, but my son was still charged in court and put into residential. Regardless of why your son is like he is, being abused himself and talking about it may greatly help his understanding, but he will possibly still be seen as a threat to Daughter and even neighborhood kids. Just like no doubt most rspists were abused, that doesnt take the punishment out of the crime. Sexual stuff is probably taken more seriously than any other childhood issue. Hope for the best, but do be prepared. In the end, I repeat, if you know son's urges and do not act, cps could find you ufit to protect ALL of your kids and remoe them all and even lawyers have a hot bed of hell trying to reverse that decision by the courts, who normally follow the cps ruling. Is it fair? Not always. Life isnt fair. We know this. But withholding your son's info can only make things worse. You can get in legal trouble too if you withhold and your son touches, say, a neighbor boy or young school child. He is a minor and he will likely be taken to a facility for help, but you could lose all your kids and even face legal charges for not protecting them. And what if you find out he HAS acted on it? You dont know if he has. Cps is brutal on these things and, as a government agency, extremely powerful. Your son needs help and this is critical. His urges and masturbating into towels then washing himself with the towel IS NOT NORMAL. Nor is his liking of seeing baby boy parts. Or his ideas about poop. For the third time I urge you to do what you know hasto happen so that he and the rest of you can get help before something bigger happens. In fact, you dont know for sure that nothing has. A professional has to deal with this. Its above your ability. If you hide it further and worse happens, at least you were warned. I ferl that you now realize the need to help your son and to be honest. Tons of courage and luck. [/QUOTE]
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