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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 740254" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>My 40yo son is out to drive me crazier. He went no contact with me for about 5 years when I refused to give him money to fuel his drug habit. I know he was living on the streets.</p><p></p><p>His druggie girlfriend committed suicide and he contacted me. I was glad and so worried he would kill himself.</p><p></p><p>Next, he was living with a special needs friend, still always asked me for money. Then, I guess he moved a woman and her 3 kids in with the special needs couple and their kids. They had no place to live.</p><p></p><p>They had a fight with the couple they were living with. It was too many blankety blank people in a tiny home! I gave him money for a place to stay. I knew nothing about the new woman and her kids of course.</p><p></p><p>Now, a year later, for some reason the woman has quit her job. Who would have guessed, right??</p><p></p><p>I have given them so much money, and I have turned down so many requests for money. I'm so tired of him, them. I feel for the kids, but I'm not getting sucked in again. I was also trying to visit to take them out to eat, pick them up for holidays and gifts for the kids Christmas and birthday. They think I'm rich and I'm not. My son just sent me a frantic text AGAIN that he needs to **borrow** $200 today or they will be on the street.</p><p></p><p>I have given them so much since July, I can't again. It's so hard to stay strong, it's easier to give him the money just to get him off my back.</p><p></p><p>My heavens above, he will never have a stable life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 740254, member: 13558"] My 40yo son is out to drive me crazier. He went no contact with me for about 5 years when I refused to give him money to fuel his drug habit. I know he was living on the streets. His druggie girlfriend committed suicide and he contacted me. I was glad and so worried he would kill himself. Next, he was living with a special needs friend, still always asked me for money. Then, I guess he moved a woman and her 3 kids in with the special needs couple and their kids. They had no place to live. They had a fight with the couple they were living with. It was too many blankety blank people in a tiny home! I gave him money for a place to stay. I knew nothing about the new woman and her kids of course. Now, a year later, for some reason the woman has quit her job. Who would have guessed, right?? I have given them so much money, and I have turned down so many requests for money. I'm so tired of him, them. I feel for the kids, but I'm not getting sucked in again. I was also trying to visit to take them out to eat, pick them up for holidays and gifts for the kids Christmas and birthday. They think I'm rich and I'm not. My son just sent me a frantic text AGAIN that he needs to **borrow** $200 today or they will be on the street. I have given them so much since July, I can't again. It's so hard to stay strong, it's easier to give him the money just to get him off my back. My heavens above, he will never have a stable life. [/QUOTE]
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