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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 673780" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi 4now, hope today is a better day for you. Mili went over to P.E. under the thread</p><p><u>So Drained. </u></p><p>Thanks for your help with that.</p><p></p><p> This is good, 4now, I am glad you have this for yourself. I find that after so many years of concentrating on helping my two, then realizing we were enabling them, a good way to fill that void, is to spend time with my gracious children (that is what I call them). I am glad your hubs is loving and supportive.</p><p> Same for me, homelessness is my daughters choice.</p><p>She is some kind of poster child, in her mind, and her conversation.</p><p>She kind of revels in it. Crazy, huh?</p><p>It is about the rules for her, she does not want to follow rules.</p><p> I have thought of this, too. But honestly 4now, I could lose any of my children, grands, friends or family, to death. It is an unfortunate circumstance, but death is a part of life. Of course, our d cs are tempting their fate with their destructive, addictive lifestyles, <em>but I try not to focus on that</em>. That is misery knocking on my door. </p><p></p><p>So I give it to God, and ask Him to watch over her.</p><p></p><p>I ask Him to help me live a full life, too.</p><p></p><p> </p><p>This is true, it is beyond our control, good attitude.</p><p></p><p>OH, quilts, I absolutely love them. How wonderful. This is good busy work. </p><p>Steady hands, breathing, steady life.</p><p></p><p> I know just what you are writing of, that conversation induced emotional tailspin. </p><p>Try to keep it short and simple, that works for me.</p><p>"Love you, hope you are okay, take good care of yourself."</p><p></p><p>I have found, trying to address addiction, drug, use, rehab, is a fruitless endeavor.</p><p>I shall arm my toolbox with information, and if my daughter brings it up, then offer.</p><p></p><p>I hope you are having a better day today. I am glad you have your faith, hubs, gracious child and grands to help see you through this.</p><p></p><p>You are doing this, one day at a time.</p><p></p><p>Keep the faith, keep praying, prayers are powerful!</p><p></p><p>Peace be to you and yours.</p><p></p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p><p></p><p></p><p><u></u></p><p><u></u></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 673780, member: 19522"] Hi 4now, hope today is a better day for you. Mili went over to P.E. under the thread [U]So Drained. [/U] Thanks for your help with that. This is good, 4now, I am glad you have this for yourself. I find that after so many years of concentrating on helping my two, then realizing we were enabling them, a good way to fill that void, is to spend time with my gracious children (that is what I call them). I am glad your hubs is loving and supportive. Same for me, homelessness is my daughters choice. She is some kind of poster child, in her mind, and her conversation. She kind of revels in it. Crazy, huh? It is about the rules for her, she does not want to follow rules. I have thought of this, too. But honestly 4now, I could lose any of my children, grands, friends or family, to death. It is an unfortunate circumstance, but death is a part of life. Of course, our d cs are tempting their fate with their destructive, addictive lifestyles, [I]but I try not to focus on that[/I]. That is misery knocking on my door. So I give it to God, and ask Him to watch over her. I ask Him to help me live a full life, too. This is true, it is beyond our control, good attitude. OH, quilts, I absolutely love them. How wonderful. This is good busy work. Steady hands, breathing, steady life. I know just what you are writing of, that conversation induced emotional tailspin. Try to keep it short and simple, that works for me. "Love you, hope you are okay, take good care of yourself." I have found, trying to address addiction, drug, use, rehab, is a fruitless endeavor. I shall arm my toolbox with information, and if my daughter brings it up, then offer. I hope you are having a better day today. I am glad you have your faith, hubs, gracious child and grands to help see you through this. You are doing this, one day at a time. Keep the faith, keep praying, prayers are powerful! Peace be to you and yours. (((HUGS))) leafy [U] [/U] [/QUOTE]
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