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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 762834" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Oh. It was easy for us. We have younger kids whom she almost killed during her rages. She stole and.lied and took drugs too and was toyally disrespectful. So we did any sane parenmts who can't live with their child does...we bought her and her drugged husband a cute little house. All they had to do in order to keep it was to pay the utilities and keep the yard clean. Not even the inside of the house. The yard! The HOA demanded nice yards.</p><p></p><p>You guessed it. The utilities never got paid until we paid them. Now for the yard. We mowed it for them but each time we came there was more and more trash in.it. You saw better looking yards at carnivals. They fought outside at night and the police were called. Finally they were in so much trouble that we took the house back, fixed it up, and sold it. We did not make a profit.</p><p>Next we tried buying then a small mobile home and they had to only pay cheap lot rent.Guess what they never paid? Also again they had loud violent fights in the yard and the landlord told us the motorhome could no longer stay there. Strike two.</p><p></p><p>Following that we paid much rent and stupidly bought Kay three (3!) cars in case she got a job. She got no job but she totalled all three cars.</p><p></p><p>My husband was done by then and most of you have read the rest of the story. Her gig was up after ten years and half of our retirement gone.</p><p></p><p>No matter how hard we try or how badly we feel we can't save them. Kay had it made yet drugs, fighting and her loud personality ruined all her chances to not only be independent but b a homeowner. Their personalities seem to be on different planets than others and not in a good way. </p><p></p><p>No matter how they whine and pray on Grandma's grave that it will be different this time, it's usually more of the same.</p><p></p><p>If your son held a job, got off drugs and became nicer he would be able to loive on his own without giving you tears and theatrics. It's an act to get him home, not for the comfort, but for the money he can steal etc.</p><p></p><p>He is a man, not a child. He has hair on his face and a deep voice. Take down his little boy pictures. He is grown up now. We took down Kay's baby pictures.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 762834, member: 1550"] Oh. It was easy for us. We have younger kids whom she almost killed during her rages. She stole and.lied and took drugs too and was toyally disrespectful. So we did any sane parenmts who can't live with their child does...we bought her and her drugged husband a cute little house. All they had to do in order to keep it was to pay the utilities and keep the yard clean. Not even the inside of the house. The yard! The HOA demanded nice yards. You guessed it. The utilities never got paid until we paid them. Now for the yard. We mowed it for them but each time we came there was more and more trash in.it. You saw better looking yards at carnivals. They fought outside at night and the police were called. Finally they were in so much trouble that we took the house back, fixed it up, and sold it. We did not make a profit. Next we tried buying then a small mobile home and they had to only pay cheap lot rent.Guess what they never paid? Also again they had loud violent fights in the yard and the landlord told us the motorhome could no longer stay there. Strike two. Following that we paid much rent and stupidly bought Kay three (3!) cars in case she got a job. She got no job but she totalled all three cars. My husband was done by then and most of you have read the rest of the story. Her gig was up after ten years and half of our retirement gone. No matter how hard we try or how badly we feel we can't save them. Kay had it made yet drugs, fighting and her loud personality ruined all her chances to not only be independent but b a homeowner. Their personalities seem to be on different planets than others and not in a good way. No matter how they whine and pray on Grandma's grave that it will be different this time, it's usually more of the same. If your son held a job, got off drugs and became nicer he would be able to loive on his own without giving you tears and theatrics. It's an act to get him home, not for the comfort, but for the money he can steal etc. He is a man, not a child. He has hair on his face and a deep voice. Take down his little boy pictures. He is grown up now. We took down Kay's baby pictures. Hugs and love. [/QUOTE]
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