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Would you wrongfully apoligize to stay on good terms with somebody.
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 739366" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>FWIW, I can only perceive this situation from my own similar experience. My younger sister, whom I raised (who is mentally ill) has accused everyone in my bio family of horrific abuses for the last 20 years. Over time she moved all of her blame onto me (I raised her). She contacted me recently after not speaking to me for years stating that now was the time for me to come clean about her fabricated accusations...if I did that, she would then forgive me and we could move on. I refused. I am not willing to admit to something I did not do in order for another to feel good about whatever nonsense they believe. That would be a remarkable act of self abandonment. I knew my choice would end my connection with my sister, but she had already ended it years before, I had already lost her to mental illness. It was not an easy choice, but it was really, the ONLY choice for me. </p><p></p><p>I wish your friend well, I know how hard these decisions are, but I hope she chooses to live her truth.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 739366, member: 13542"] FWIW, I can only perceive this situation from my own similar experience. My younger sister, whom I raised (who is mentally ill) has accused everyone in my bio family of horrific abuses for the last 20 years. Over time she moved all of her blame onto me (I raised her). She contacted me recently after not speaking to me for years stating that now was the time for me to come clean about her fabricated accusations...if I did that, she would then forgive me and we could move on. I refused. I am not willing to admit to something I did not do in order for another to feel good about whatever nonsense they believe. That would be a remarkable act of self abandonment. I knew my choice would end my connection with my sister, but she had already ended it years before, I had already lost her to mental illness. It was not an easy choice, but it was really, the ONLY choice for me. I wish your friend well, I know how hard these decisions are, but I hope she chooses to live her truth. [/QUOTE]
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