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Would you wrongfully apoligize to stay on good terms with somebody.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 739375" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This is a tragic story looked at one way. As long as this foo remains her center of gravity, she will suffer.</p><p></p><p>There is a very bad word in psychology for what this mother is doing. It's called a schizophrenogenic mother. There was a time stupid idiot psychology blamed mothers for contributing to their child's schizophrenia by putting them in double binds.</p><p></p><p>What this means is what this mom is doing. Forcing her adult child to cut off her nose to spite her face.</p><p></p><p>The thing is that this mom for sure did the same thing when this woman was a child.</p><p></p><p>So the repetition is traumatic. It triggers countless other similar memories. And the mother set up the dynamic of betrayal among the sisters.</p><p></p><p>This situation would NOT be tragic if, as others have said, this woman could locate her self esteem and her locus of control in her real family, the loving relationship she has with her child.</p><p></p><p>But I for one know how hard this is. </p><p></p><p>You are a loving and caring friend, swot.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 739375, member: 18958"] This is a tragic story looked at one way. As long as this foo remains her center of gravity, she will suffer. There is a very bad word in psychology for what this mother is doing. It's called a schizophrenogenic mother. There was a time stupid idiot psychology blamed mothers for contributing to their child's schizophrenia by putting them in double binds. What this means is what this mom is doing. Forcing her adult child to cut off her nose to spite her face. The thing is that this mom for sure did the same thing when this woman was a child. So the repetition is traumatic. It triggers countless other similar memories. And the mother set up the dynamic of betrayal among the sisters. This situation would NOT be tragic if, as others have said, this woman could locate her self esteem and her locus of control in her real family, the loving relationship she has with her child. But I for one know how hard this is. You are a loving and caring friend, swot. [/QUOTE]
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