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Would you wrongfully apoligize to stay on good terms with somebody.
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<blockquote data-quote="Wish" data-source="post: 739385" data-attributes="member: 23140"><p>That makes me so sad.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>You know, it wouldn't be a bad idea.....</p><p></p><p>I know you can't actually tell her off, but you can try and just talk to her on your friends behalf. I don't see anything wrong with that at all.</p><p></p><p>You can say something along the lines of "I am wanting to speak to you on my friends behalf. You have to agree that three against one is never fair so this is why I feel I have to step in and say something here...." and then tell her how you really feel about the situation. I have done this for a friend before with her family and even if they don't hear you all the way out, even if they hang up on you, usually they retreat a lot and back off the victim when they realize the victim isn't alone. It's becomes too easy for bullies to gang up up on one. They can't even stop themselves because they get off on the power of it all. But once someone comes in and defends the victim, even in the least, they back the hell off most of the time and even change their attitudes for the better towards the victim. I've seen it happen with my own eyes. Hey, it's just nice to stand up for people once in a while, especially your own friends, with their premission of course.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Wish, post: 739385, member: 23140"] That makes me so sad. You know, it wouldn't be a bad idea..... I know you can't actually tell her off, but you can try and just talk to her on your friends behalf. I don't see anything wrong with that at all. You can say something along the lines of "I am wanting to speak to you on my friends behalf. You have to agree that three against one is never fair so this is why I feel I have to step in and say something here...." and then tell her how you really feel about the situation. I have done this for a friend before with her family and even if they don't hear you all the way out, even if they hang up on you, usually they retreat a lot and back off the victim when they realize the victim isn't alone. It's becomes too easy for bullies to gang up up on one. They can't even stop themselves because they get off on the power of it all. But once someone comes in and defends the victim, even in the least, they back the hell off most of the time and even change their attitudes for the better towards the victim. I've seen it happen with my own eyes. Hey, it's just nice to stand up for people once in a while, especially your own friends, with their premission of course. [/QUOTE]
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