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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 224839" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>Hmm? I really hate these situations. </p><p>With K who is only 7... I have to look back and talk myself through a better way to handle her, myself, all of it. </p><p>I have to look at how she was doing, was she off at all? Was I short? Could letting her do the thing she wanted for a brief time have helped? (compromise on both of our parts?) </p><p>Did pushing her (not literally), push her over the edge? </p><p>Did yelling at her push her over the edge? </p><p></p><p>Would she have gone over the edge regardless of what I did? </p><p>Would she have gone over the edge even if I let her do what she wanted? </p><p>Would she have ever done the work? </p><p>Is it the medications? Is the Holidays? </p><p>Is it just life?????</p><p></p><p>None of this helps, but it does in a way, for me at least. it helps me kind of wrap my mind around what I can do or could have done. And where maybe K's head is at. </p><p>I hate feeling like I am letting her *get away* with something, but sometimes the letting her feel like we are compromising, gets me what I want!</p><p></p><p>Sorry he was so destructive, that is not OK. </p><p>I would wan to talk to the therapist and figure out a plan.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 224839, member: 3155"] Hmm? I really hate these situations. With K who is only 7... I have to look back and talk myself through a better way to handle her, myself, all of it. I have to look at how she was doing, was she off at all? Was I short? Could letting her do the thing she wanted for a brief time have helped? (compromise on both of our parts?) Did pushing her (not literally), push her over the edge? Did yelling at her push her over the edge? Would she have gone over the edge regardless of what I did? Would she have gone over the edge even if I let her do what she wanted? Would she have ever done the work? Is it the medications? Is the Holidays? Is it just life????? None of this helps, but it does in a way, for me at least. it helps me kind of wrap my mind around what I can do or could have done. And where maybe K's head is at. I hate feeling like I am letting her *get away* with something, but sometimes the letting her feel like we are compromising, gets me what I want! Sorry he was so destructive, that is not OK. I would wan to talk to the therapist and figure out a plan. [/QUOTE]
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