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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 612037" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Yay, back on the internet! </p><p></p><p>PG...Yes, it is getting to be stressful already. I think they live about an hour or so from me...near the next city over. </p><p>Today, Half sister called me with "questions". She wanted to know first if difficult child had any clothes? Well, I told her he had clothes in a bag in the front seat of his truck last I knew and he has clothes in two boxes in our garage. But apparently he is wearing the same thing every day! </p><p></p><p>She also said he drinks all of her husband's beer, lol. I warned her. I told her he was an alcoholic. </p><p>She said they gave him a job the other day and that he didn't complete it...that he sleeps most of the day away and stays up late. She told me she noticed too that his registration on his truck has expired. She wanted to know if he had any tickets and I told her about the no Insurance ticket I understand he got and also a surcharge fee. I told her if he gets pulled over, he is likely to go to jail. No insurance in Texas is a BIG no no. </p><p></p><p>Anyway, her husband was going to get him a job at his company but is now having second thoughts...I don't blame him. difficult child is doing the same thing he was here and then at daughter in law's mother's home...Using and doing very little to be productive. </p><p>Half sister told me that she didn't think this through when she offered him a place to stay, sigh, he's a difficult child! She has two productive daughters and I think my young difficult child is a bit more than they bargained for. </p><p></p><p>Meanwhile, lil grandson Joey had his 6th birthday party yesterday! He has this kind of "far away" look in his eyes when you look at the birthday pics of him at Chuckee Cheese. I wonder what goes on in his sweet little head...does he wonder why he doesn't have his dad there? I did get on to young difficult child the other day on the "actual birthday" for not even calling him or his wife (who's birthday is the same day!)</p><p></p><p>I took daughter in law out on Friday night to the casino...helped dry up her tears. </p><p>She has waited 6-7 yrs for young difficult child to get it together and help them live as a functional family. </p><p>Yet, his best seems to be "emptying the trash" at half sister's house. </p><p></p><p>I have to admit, I was relieved that young difficult child had a place to go...with "family". </p><p>But now it would appear that he is quickly wearing out his welcome. </p><p>I have NO IDEA what the future holds for him. </p><p>This is getting old. </p><p>I am feeling a bit anxious. </p><p></p><p>LMS </p><p>ps...DDD and all, I keep you all in my nightly prayers. Thank you for being here for me and caring about us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 612037, member: 3305"] Yay, back on the internet! PG...Yes, it is getting to be stressful already. I think they live about an hour or so from me...near the next city over. Today, Half sister called me with "questions". She wanted to know first if difficult child had any clothes? Well, I told her he had clothes in a bag in the front seat of his truck last I knew and he has clothes in two boxes in our garage. But apparently he is wearing the same thing every day! She also said he drinks all of her husband's beer, lol. I warned her. I told her he was an alcoholic. She said they gave him a job the other day and that he didn't complete it...that he sleeps most of the day away and stays up late. She told me she noticed too that his registration on his truck has expired. She wanted to know if he had any tickets and I told her about the no Insurance ticket I understand he got and also a surcharge fee. I told her if he gets pulled over, he is likely to go to jail. No insurance in Texas is a BIG no no. Anyway, her husband was going to get him a job at his company but is now having second thoughts...I don't blame him. difficult child is doing the same thing he was here and then at daughter in law's mother's home...Using and doing very little to be productive. Half sister told me that she didn't think this through when she offered him a place to stay, sigh, he's a difficult child! She has two productive daughters and I think my young difficult child is a bit more than they bargained for. Meanwhile, lil grandson Joey had his 6th birthday party yesterday! He has this kind of "far away" look in his eyes when you look at the birthday pics of him at Chuckee Cheese. I wonder what goes on in his sweet little head...does he wonder why he doesn't have his dad there? I did get on to young difficult child the other day on the "actual birthday" for not even calling him or his wife (who's birthday is the same day!) I took daughter in law out on Friday night to the casino...helped dry up her tears. She has waited 6-7 yrs for young difficult child to get it together and help them live as a functional family. Yet, his best seems to be "emptying the trash" at half sister's house. I have to admit, I was relieved that young difficult child had a place to go...with "family". But now it would appear that he is quickly wearing out his welcome. I have NO IDEA what the future holds for him. This is getting old. I am feeling a bit anxious. LMS ps...DDD and all, I keep you all in my nightly prayers. Thank you for being here for me and caring about us. [/QUOTE]
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