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Youngest daughter (25) living with much older man (33 years older) not talking to me
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 483603"><p>Oh hugs... this sounds like a really tough situation and one I would be worried about. Many red flags that he is abusive. You are doing the best thing you can do by letting her know you love her and are there for her... he will try to isolate her (and for the moment seems to be succeeding) and she just needs to continue to know you are there for her when she is ready for support and help.</p><p></p><p>Midwest suggested calling the local cops to do a well being check on her. I think this is a good idea and something that people do all the time. I think it might have a two fold effect, one is if they go and she is fine then you wll know that she is ok. It also kind of puts him on notice that you are paying attention and want to know that she is ok... I don't think him being aware of your concern would be a bad thing. He may then at least let her call you once in a while to reassure you. I don't know how she would feel about it.... but it may also let her know you are worried and care about her... and we don't know how difficult he is making it for her to contact you. If you let the police know you are concerned about the relationship they may suggest to her domestic violence resources.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 483603"] Oh hugs... this sounds like a really tough situation and one I would be worried about. Many red flags that he is abusive. You are doing the best thing you can do by letting her know you love her and are there for her... he will try to isolate her (and for the moment seems to be succeeding) and she just needs to continue to know you are there for her when she is ready for support and help. Midwest suggested calling the local cops to do a well being check on her. I think this is a good idea and something that people do all the time. I think it might have a two fold effect, one is if they go and she is fine then you wll know that she is ok. It also kind of puts him on notice that you are paying attention and want to know that she is ok... I don't think him being aware of your concern would be a bad thing. He may then at least let her call you once in a while to reassure you. I don't know how she would feel about it.... but it may also let her know you are worried and care about her... and we don't know how difficult he is making it for her to contact you. If you let the police know you are concerned about the relationship they may suggest to her domestic violence resources. TL [/QUOTE]
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