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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 615755" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>difficult child was kicked out of the shelter yesterday (a two day suspension, really) for fighting.</p><p></p><p>Color me scared.</p><p></p><p>****************</p><p></p><p>Interesting things: Though my heart dropped when I came home and husband told me difficult child had called and 1) been kicked out of the shelter for two days 2) was experiencing a drip of what is likely cerebrospial fluid, I was able to recover pretty quickly. As is usual for us when we get socked in the breadbasket, husband got all picky about me and what I should be doing. I mean in a whole, wide-ranging way. This is a pattern I have always seen. Now that Bad Cedar is here? It is a pattern which is immediately addressed. Poor husband. Nowhere to dump his own hostility, his own hurt and confusion. All is well, now. It was dicey, though.</p><p></p><p>18 degrees below zero last night, in the City where difficult child daughter is now (unbelievably) homeless for two days. She told husband when she called that she was spending the night with a woman from the days when she was literally homeless, last summer. difficult child will go to her grandmother's for Christmas Eve, and will spend tonight there. I heard from her, this morning. I AM NEITHER ANGRY NOR WORRIED. </p><p></p><p>It is what it is. </p><p></p><p>I have not been able to fix the situation. I did try. :O) (They don't call me whatever it is that they call me for nothing!) </p><p></p><p>The evening was a little uncomfortable. We both slept well, the morning has been very good. </p><p></p><p>We have people coming for dinner, and an invitation for dinner, tomorrow.</p><p></p><p>Reccovering, Witz, Janet, Echolette, MWM, helpangel, nomatic...to all of us, here on the site (Huff, you too ~ and JM)...wishing a beautiful Christmas filled with memories you will cherish for years to come. We all need to remind ourselves that we can create those moments, if we are determined. </p><p></p><p>That is what I wish for us.</p><p></p><p>I need to go cook, now.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>P.S. husband brought the cannoli home. </p><p></p><p>YUM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 615755, member: 17461"] difficult child was kicked out of the shelter yesterday (a two day suspension, really) for fighting. Color me scared. **************** Interesting things: Though my heart dropped when I came home and husband told me difficult child had called and 1) been kicked out of the shelter for two days 2) was experiencing a drip of what is likely cerebrospial fluid, I was able to recover pretty quickly. As is usual for us when we get socked in the breadbasket, husband got all picky about me and what I should be doing. I mean in a whole, wide-ranging way. This is a pattern I have always seen. Now that Bad Cedar is here? It is a pattern which is immediately addressed. Poor husband. Nowhere to dump his own hostility, his own hurt and confusion. All is well, now. It was dicey, though. 18 degrees below zero last night, in the City where difficult child daughter is now (unbelievably) homeless for two days. She told husband when she called that she was spending the night with a woman from the days when she was literally homeless, last summer. difficult child will go to her grandmother's for Christmas Eve, and will spend tonight there. I heard from her, this morning. I AM NEITHER ANGRY NOR WORRIED. It is what it is. I have not been able to fix the situation. I did try. :O) (They don't call me whatever it is that they call me for nothing!) The evening was a little uncomfortable. We both slept well, the morning has been very good. We have people coming for dinner, and an invitation for dinner, tomorrow. Reccovering, Witz, Janet, Echolette, MWM, helpangel, nomatic...to all of us, here on the site (Huff, you too ~ and JM)...wishing a beautiful Christmas filled with memories you will cherish for years to come. We all need to remind ourselves that we can create those moments, if we are determined. That is what I wish for us. I need to go cook, now. :O) P.S. husband brought the cannoli home. YUM [/QUOTE]
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