pepperidge
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HI,
I have been waging a struggle to get my youngest services. They refused to give him an IEP (depsite having a diagnosis of BiPolar (BP)), neuropsychologist testing that indicated probable Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE), and some learning disabilities (notably slow processing speeds) and increasing difficulties mastering content. The neuropsychologist (who otherwise did a fine job on the report) didn't help our case with the school too much because of her use of the word probably which seemed appropriate to us at the time given the difficulties of making firm diagnoses in these areas.
We decided that since they were willing to give us services that we would have sought under an IEP (title 1 reading) and some more individualized attention in math primarily, it wasn't worth pursuing legal channels at this point to get an IEP.
When we got the final 504 plan a few days ago(6 weeks after our 4th meeting on it), we wrote a letter stating that we were disappointed that it took so long to get a plan, appreciated the steps they had already taken to provide services and brought their attention to a few points we had discussed six weeks earlier that they ignored. WE also copied it to the superintendent whom we know somewhat(its a very small district) because we thought the kind of time delay was unacceptable.
So today we get a response back to our letter from director of Special Education (whom we know fairly well) with this as a closing para:
"One thing we should all probably address as a team is our expectation levels. We are to provide reasonable and appropriate services for the access and opportunity for students to be educated. We also strive for high expectations for all students. However, when there are disabilities we are not charged with cures or prevention of all failures or mistakes; but reasonable accommodations, modifications to remediate as we can. Also, there is clear research to suggest that we should identify strengths, talents and improvements rather than focusing on disabilities and deficiencies. We need to stretch and develop talents, provide coping strategies and reasonable remediation for areas of deficit or disability."
I guess that the most politic thing would be just to ignore this paragraph. But I feel that there is an implied criticism--that we are asking for too much.
Anyway, the paragraph really annoys me. I am thinking about writing back and saying good point on the stengths etc and what is your plan to develop them, since that was missing in the 504. Moreover, the only strength they noted on the 504 was high degree of parental involvement. So how do they intend to build on that (LOL).
Now we are not asking for miracles or whatever--just some focused support in reading and math so that our difficult child remains on grade level. I would happy if he gets a passing grade on his chapter math assessments, which according to his intelligence tests is not too much to expect he achieve, provided he is given sufficient opportunity to absorb and practice what he learns so that he fully internalizes it.
Anyway, help me do what is in my best long-range interest here. Anything I can do to strengthen my case down the road for an IEP if we need one is a key objective. That and not alienating the staff that we have to deal with. Maybe the best response is no response.
What do you guys think?
Chris
I have been waging a struggle to get my youngest services. They refused to give him an IEP (depsite having a diagnosis of BiPolar (BP)), neuropsychologist testing that indicated probable Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE), and some learning disabilities (notably slow processing speeds) and increasing difficulties mastering content. The neuropsychologist (who otherwise did a fine job on the report) didn't help our case with the school too much because of her use of the word probably which seemed appropriate to us at the time given the difficulties of making firm diagnoses in these areas.
We decided that since they were willing to give us services that we would have sought under an IEP (title 1 reading) and some more individualized attention in math primarily, it wasn't worth pursuing legal channels at this point to get an IEP.
When we got the final 504 plan a few days ago(6 weeks after our 4th meeting on it), we wrote a letter stating that we were disappointed that it took so long to get a plan, appreciated the steps they had already taken to provide services and brought their attention to a few points we had discussed six weeks earlier that they ignored. WE also copied it to the superintendent whom we know somewhat(its a very small district) because we thought the kind of time delay was unacceptable.
So today we get a response back to our letter from director of Special Education (whom we know fairly well) with this as a closing para:
"One thing we should all probably address as a team is our expectation levels. We are to provide reasonable and appropriate services for the access and opportunity for students to be educated. We also strive for high expectations for all students. However, when there are disabilities we are not charged with cures or prevention of all failures or mistakes; but reasonable accommodations, modifications to remediate as we can. Also, there is clear research to suggest that we should identify strengths, talents and improvements rather than focusing on disabilities and deficiencies. We need to stretch and develop talents, provide coping strategies and reasonable remediation for areas of deficit or disability."
I guess that the most politic thing would be just to ignore this paragraph. But I feel that there is an implied criticism--that we are asking for too much.
Anyway, the paragraph really annoys me. I am thinking about writing back and saying good point on the stengths etc and what is your plan to develop them, since that was missing in the 504. Moreover, the only strength they noted on the 504 was high degree of parental involvement. So how do they intend to build on that (LOL).
Now we are not asking for miracles or whatever--just some focused support in reading and math so that our difficult child remains on grade level. I would happy if he gets a passing grade on his chapter math assessments, which according to his intelligence tests is not too much to expect he achieve, provided he is given sufficient opportunity to absorb and practice what he learns so that he fully internalizes it.
Anyway, help me do what is in my best long-range interest here. Anything I can do to strengthen my case down the road for an IEP if we need one is a key objective. That and not alienating the staff that we have to deal with. Maybe the best response is no response.
What do you guys think?
Chris