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    It's happening again.....

    It's so hard as parents or relatives to get such shocking news. I can't even imagine what you are going through. There is also a site for parents of people in prison that might offer some support. Try to feel your feelings, cry, whatever it is you need to do and then focus loving-care on...
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    What Have You Done About Your Will or Trust?

    I don't believe that hard earned money should go to active alcoholics or drug addicts, or grown children who have shown you disrespect and have caused you problems and never apologized for such . . . basically, I don't believe bad behavior should be rewarded. I have struggled, greatly, on...
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    Seek's Journey: Some Experiences, Insights, Lessons, Tools, Other :)

    Sometimes it's hard to know what is going on. Monday was the eclipse. My spiritual beliefs involve the effects of astrology and I believe human beings are evolving rapidly and the current world is collapsing to make way for the New Earth (ascension). So the fact that I was extremely emotional...
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    Is this how it usually goes??

    I asked you who you were referring to. Anyway, have a nice evening!
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    Is this how it usually goes??

    Ok . . .I misunderstood - I thought you had already made your case and your response came right after mine. Anyway . . . just FYI, because it's kind of a big deal and others might be dealing with it - telling an HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) that they are "too sensitive" is a put-down . . . and...
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    Is this how it usually goes??

    I don't know who you are talking to - I said not do "reward."
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    Is this how it usually goes??

    How was she financing her meth addiction? Just curious. I agree on the driving thing - and I know for me, I easily go into denial because I WANT my grandson to be "normal" and he "looks" normal - and I revert back to thinking of him as a teenager (and I know you are dealing with a teenager) and...
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    Is this how it usually goes??

    Gosh, I feel for you. I know the one tear thing and being abused and rejected for having hurt feelings. Since she is calling the shots, it is probably going to be a hellish nightmare - I don't know if you can get a social worker to come to the house and draw up a contract - seems like you...
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    As expected, it's getting worse

    You definitely do not deserve to be treated so disrespectfully. I hope you can find a way not to take it personally (ala The Four Agreements) - her stuff is about her, not you. It must be so difficult regarding the grandkids - I am working on seeing everyone on their own, deliberate path (no...
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    Seek's Journey: Some Experiences, Insights, Lessons, Tools, Other :)

    Good news today. My grandson seems to have listened to me and messaged me that he was not going to do something that I was worried about (and I just stated my concerns to him and let it go). I am proud of him and am feeling hopeful. I had been releasing all kinds of pain - cried for two days -...
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    Seek's Journey: Some Experiences, Insights, Lessons, Tools, Other :)

    I listened to some videos on "other people" on YouTube and that helped a little bit. I also had someone listen to my worries and my process, which was validating. I went shopping for art, and the clerk asked me if I was Pisces - I said Pisces rising, that I had been crying all day, and I am...
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    Anyone know anything about little dog's health/cancer/seizures?

    I am totally into natural remedies and energy healing, so can't comment on the traditional stuff, but I had a dog from age 17-20 (Chihuahua) who had seizures frequently. I do Reiki so I would give him Reiki, but the first thing I would do when he was having a seizure is pick him up and hold him...
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    Had to post again to ask a serious question

    May your loved one rest in peace. On the advice to switch from a credit union to a bank, I am no financial expert, but disagree just on principle (and watching my ex take advise from his bank advisor). The advice you will get from an advisor who works for any particular entity will be to invest...
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    Missing my Mom

    Beautiful tribute
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    Seek's Journey: Some Experiences, Insights, Lessons, Tools, Other :)

    Yes. I listen to lots of inspirational vids on YouTube. Wayne Dyer & Doreen Virtue are good - have lots of tools. Everyone has a different experiences. I am "interested" (as a distraction, mainly) in many things, but my heart is with my grandson. Nothing will ever change that. It's just the...
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    Seek's Journey: Some Experiences, Insights, Lessons, Tools, Other :)

    My philosophy in life is that "we are all one," however my humanness cannot perceive what I view as that "truth," so I suffer. There aren't really any "things" or activities that are more important to me or interest me more than my grandson's well-being. This is unfortunate, as I have no power...
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    Why does my son refuse to seek help?

    You might also want to try making paragraphs next time, as reading a "wall of words" is difficult. I wish you the best!
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    Should we help?

    Rehabs are big business. The private, 28 day programs are mostly a waste of time (I believe). The longer programs are cost prohibitive. I guess a lot of people have money to burn, but I am not one of them and feel sad for all of the parents who would pay for a 6 month program, but cannot afford...
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    What Have You Done About Your Will or Trust?

    As to hiring an executor - it is very tricky - banks are no Bueno, as far as I am concerned. Any person has to be young enough to be able to function in your old age - it's hard to find just the right person.
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    What Have You Done About Your Will or Trust?

    These are very difficult decisions. Last year, I spent a lot of time working on my trust and split it four ways - then disaster hit and I modified it. I have actually modified it a couple of times. Now I am thinking it through again - the kid I had elected as Trustee, is not available for...
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