Our 21 year daughter has chosen not to live with us/we have chosen for her not to live with us because she smokes pot and drinks to the point of being an addict, we believe. She refuses to get a job or do anything adult-ish. The last time she was home we thought she had finally hit rock bottom...
My 20 year old daughter (multiple mood disorders) moved out in August to live with her boyfriend. We helped financially get them set up in an apartment and told them that we would be weaning them off our money and that they needed to get themselves jobs and take over their own finances. She got...