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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 738840" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>This has given me a lot to think about.</p><p></p><p>We (I mean that very generally) have to be careful that if one shares their personal feelings, that I/we don't ridicule etc. People are entitled to their personal feelings and in a way, you might even consider it an honor that they chose you to share with.</p><p></p><p>(As a side note...I loathe what insanity I see on FB...double loathe the political unkindness)</p><p></p><p>For me, it makes sense that when you don't know someone well or for awhile, that you probably shouldn't do this. A boundary of sorts. A wise one.</p><p></p><p>But, if I've known them a very long time or I have shared with them, it seems almost like they are "witholding" if they NEVER share anything of a personal nature. </p><p></p><p>I'm NOT talking about secrets. Those should always be kept just that...quiet/secret. If one feels they must talk about something that is a secret....well, then maybe with a therapist or possibly with your spouse.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 738840, member: 4152"] This has given me a lot to think about. We (I mean that very generally) have to be careful that if one shares their personal feelings, that I/we don't ridicule etc. People are entitled to their personal feelings and in a way, you might even consider it an honor that they chose you to share with. (As a side note...I loathe what insanity I see on FB...double loathe the political unkindness) For me, it makes sense that when you don't know someone well or for awhile, that you probably shouldn't do this. A boundary of sorts. A wise one. But, if I've known them a very long time or I have shared with them, it seems almost like they are "witholding" if they NEVER share anything of a personal nature. I'm NOT talking about secrets. Those should always be kept just that...quiet/secret. If one feels they must talk about something that is a secret....well, then maybe with a therapist or possibly with your spouse. [/QUOTE]
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