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A few knotts in my neck
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<blockquote data-quote="Blindsided" data-source="post: 751780" data-attributes="member: 23811"><p>JayPea, way to go!!!! Two things stick out to me. </p><p></p><p>He calls you by your first name. My daughter does that to me when she really wants to get under my skin, because she knows it works. I leave my rational thought and transition straight into my emotional self, which is not a good time to have ANY communication with her. </p><p></p><p>I personally think his comment about earning his money working in asbestos and mold could be an insinuation he is putting his health at risk, which he might try to manipulate you in the future. I see it because my daughter was exposed to toxic mold for a very long time and now blames all the symptoms of her alcoholism on that. It could be my take on the comment because of what I have been through, but I want you to be aware it could be manipulative behavior.</p><p></p><p>If he really did pay off his car, that is a great step forward! Keep up the good work on boundaries that protect your mental health.</p><p></p><p>Light and love to you. Small victories add up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Blindsided, post: 751780, member: 23811"] JayPea, way to go!!!! Two things stick out to me. He calls you by your first name. My daughter does that to me when she really wants to get under my skin, because she knows it works. I leave my rational thought and transition straight into my emotional self, which is not a good time to have ANY communication with her. I personally think his comment about earning his money working in asbestos and mold could be an insinuation he is putting his health at risk, which he might try to manipulate you in the future. I see it because my daughter was exposed to toxic mold for a very long time and now blames all the symptoms of her alcoholism on that. It could be my take on the comment because of what I have been through, but I want you to be aware it could be manipulative behavior. If he really did pay off his car, that is a great step forward! Keep up the good work on boundaries that protect your mental health. Light and love to you. Small victories add up. [/QUOTE]
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