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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 748539" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>I totally get that this could blow up badly. And I do see enabling tendencies in the mom.</p><p>Of course, I hope it doesn’ blow up on her. I hope he continues to progress.</p><p>When I left that city, I recall thinking it was time to place more boundaries and responsibilities on him.</p><p>She was moving in that direction, but very slowly.</p><p>I was aware that at times he was not honest with her.</p><p>This was not a good sign.</p><p>I think she had to go slow and it seems to have moved him forward.</p><p>But, the bottom line if at any point he decides he doesn’t wish to go further than this...he might stop and she is sort of stuck.</p><p>I don’t know if she has it in her to set hard boundaries.</p><p>I don’t know if he has it in him to pick up the ball and run with it (so to speak).</p><p>But, it is what it is.</p><p>I hope it works out.</p><p>It’s not easy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 748539, member: 4152"] I totally get that this could blow up badly. And I do see enabling tendencies in the mom. Of course, I hope it doesn’ blow up on her. I hope he continues to progress. When I left that city, I recall thinking it was time to place more boundaries and responsibilities on him. She was moving in that direction, but very slowly. I was aware that at times he was not honest with her. This was not a good sign. I think she had to go slow and it seems to have moved him forward. But, the bottom line if at any point he decides he doesn’t wish to go further than this...he might stop and she is sort of stuck. I don’t know if she has it in her to set hard boundaries. I don’t know if he has it in him to pick up the ball and run with it (so to speak). But, it is what it is. I hope it works out. It’s not easy. [/QUOTE]
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