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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 741737" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p style="text-align: left"><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms'"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms'"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></span> I am sorry Tired Out. Nobody seems to be taking responsibility to make a decision. I think the decision will have to be yours. What do you want?</p><p></p><p>Like you, I was close to my son. But that was then. I have to remember that. That there is a whole recent history. I love him. But will I like to be with him NOW? No. </p><p></p><p>Will you feel relaxed and comfortable with your son with you and your husband? Or on eggshells?</p><p></p><p>I think if you decide you can then talk to your husband and clarify with him. Only when you know what you want, can you make a solid decision. And only when husband and you are clear and have a shared decision is when you can INVITE your son. Asking him what he is doing on Thanksgiving is not an invitation. He may be waiting for an invitation but be afraid. He knows what happened. He knows why his Dad and he got into it.</p><p></p><p>There is no right thing to do except what you want. And like me, what you want in your dreams, and what you want based upon reality, is two different things.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 741737, member: 18958"] [LEFT][FONT=trebuchet ms][COLOR=rgb(20, 20, 20)] [/COLOR][/FONT] I am sorry Tired Out. Nobody seems to be taking responsibility to make a decision. I think the decision will have to be yours. What do you want?[/LEFT] Like you, I was close to my son. But that was then. I have to remember that. That there is a whole recent history. I love him. But will I like to be with him NOW? No. Will you feel relaxed and comfortable with your son with you and your husband? Or on eggshells? I think if you decide you can then talk to your husband and clarify with him. Only when you know what you want, can you make a solid decision. And only when husband and you are clear and have a shared decision is when you can INVITE your son. Asking him what he is doing on Thanksgiving is not an invitation. He may be waiting for an invitation but be afraid. He knows what happened. He knows why his Dad and he got into it. There is no right thing to do except what you want. And like me, what you want in your dreams, and what you want based upon reality, is two different things. [/QUOTE]
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