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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 425934" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi i was just logging out and saw you. was thinking about you last night and how all your chaos at work is going...... hope its' better.</p><p> </p><p>you wrote alot..... can't cover it all. we're leaving in a few.......</p><p> </p><p>i think i've done a good job at setting up extra cirricular stuff for difficult child and I. I ride every week, keeps my sanity, and difficult child goes each week to library for different functions, is now in dance, and also has a few get together's with old friends (a few id love more)!!! as far as easy child tried to offer her some yet well ya know that story....</p><p> </p><p>schedule that's done too, we have a dry erase in kitchen alot for my memory issues and difficult child's need to be structured. we live by it each day and week. so schedules' posted weekly i'Tourette's Syndrome helped somewhat with her daily anxiety.</p><p> </p><p>medications, my difficult child like many other's is hard to medicate because there are a few different diagnosis's working at once. so unfortunately only medication that has ever done the trick is seroqeul which was awesome while it lasted, than zyprexa which got her to eat and shes' still on. others were adverse reactions and yea we pull them. her dr isnt' illegal he is a pyschiatrist old school...... been searching fora few one yet it's very hard these days to find one that takes our insurance.</p><p> </p><p>medications for me?? LOl i have xanax... i use it when needed prn. in portland i used half of a 0.25 to sleep thats so minimal if you know xanax it isnt' even funny. only medications i take are supplements and herbals and vitamins. so dont' know why you said that.</p><p> </p><p>as far as the rest goes marg has taught me to be proactive as oppposed to reactive. so i think more now before doing things especially with easy child as of late and always with difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>perfection will never hit no home is perfect. yet to be honest i miss my daughter am scared for her yet our home is so much calmer without her constant blow ups, cursing carrying on. difficult child said yesterday wow mom easy child shows up and all of a sudden our home's insane again.....</p><p> </p><p>my house is always chaotic mondays and wednesdays with my step kids yet in a good way their all busy playing outside inside all over the small house with two dogs to boot! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>conflicting info...... possibly....... i write it as it happens like a news reporter i am!!!</p><p> </p><p>anyway only thing i didnt' accomplish was getting in home services they simply weren't available. too bad for us, yet how it goes. as far as change...... and doctor's we have...... what are you reading?? LOL husband goes to therapy, difficult child goes to a new cbt since back home, i have one now, had changed yet she seems to be able to see me each week. listen yes their my guidance to an extent.</p><p> </p><p>anyhow change takes time...... our house is once again giong through a huge change with my easy child gone, it'll take time to adjust that's just normal...... patience i think is key here in our home. id' have to say though compared to when i returned from portland that first insane night it is better, there is improvement and for me thats all i gotta see is just a tiny little bit. as far as easy child goes i'm learning slowly.... thought she was cracking praying she was than my brother called to say hey she left the state. my brother has absolutely no right to fb about it or inform me of easy child's actions. if he choses to follow or stalk her facebook its' not my concern the way i see it. less i know the better.</p><p> </p><p>no defensive i just think somewhere along the line you got or maybe i sent mixed info?? i dont' know no one else is confused lol they all know easy child is insane right now, im hurting and desperately struggling to learn through it, difficult child has bipolar it's a life's work, husband and i are trying.... and yup two crazy dogs..... yea that's my life <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>anyway how are you doign with your crazy job??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 425934, member: 4514"] hi i was just logging out and saw you. was thinking about you last night and how all your chaos at work is going...... hope its' better. you wrote alot..... can't cover it all. we're leaving in a few....... i think i've done a good job at setting up extra cirricular stuff for difficult child and I. I ride every week, keeps my sanity, and difficult child goes each week to library for different functions, is now in dance, and also has a few get together's with old friends (a few id love more)!!! as far as easy child tried to offer her some yet well ya know that story.... schedule that's done too, we have a dry erase in kitchen alot for my memory issues and difficult child's need to be structured. we live by it each day and week. so schedules' posted weekly i'Tourette's Syndrome helped somewhat with her daily anxiety. medications, my difficult child like many other's is hard to medicate because there are a few different diagnosis's working at once. so unfortunately only medication that has ever done the trick is seroqeul which was awesome while it lasted, than zyprexa which got her to eat and shes' still on. others were adverse reactions and yea we pull them. her dr isnt' illegal he is a pyschiatrist old school...... been searching fora few one yet it's very hard these days to find one that takes our insurance. medications for me?? LOl i have xanax... i use it when needed prn. in portland i used half of a 0.25 to sleep thats so minimal if you know xanax it isnt' even funny. only medications i take are supplements and herbals and vitamins. so dont' know why you said that. as far as the rest goes marg has taught me to be proactive as oppposed to reactive. so i think more now before doing things especially with easy child as of late and always with difficult child. perfection will never hit no home is perfect. yet to be honest i miss my daughter am scared for her yet our home is so much calmer without her constant blow ups, cursing carrying on. difficult child said yesterday wow mom easy child shows up and all of a sudden our home's insane again..... my house is always chaotic mondays and wednesdays with my step kids yet in a good way their all busy playing outside inside all over the small house with two dogs to boot! :) conflicting info...... possibly....... i write it as it happens like a news reporter i am!!! anyway only thing i didnt' accomplish was getting in home services they simply weren't available. too bad for us, yet how it goes. as far as change...... and doctor's we have...... what are you reading?? LOL husband goes to therapy, difficult child goes to a new cbt since back home, i have one now, had changed yet she seems to be able to see me each week. listen yes their my guidance to an extent. anyhow change takes time...... our house is once again giong through a huge change with my easy child gone, it'll take time to adjust that's just normal...... patience i think is key here in our home. id' have to say though compared to when i returned from portland that first insane night it is better, there is improvement and for me thats all i gotta see is just a tiny little bit. as far as easy child goes i'm learning slowly.... thought she was cracking praying she was than my brother called to say hey she left the state. my brother has absolutely no right to fb about it or inform me of easy child's actions. if he choses to follow or stalk her facebook its' not my concern the way i see it. less i know the better. no defensive i just think somewhere along the line you got or maybe i sent mixed info?? i dont' know no one else is confused lol they all know easy child is insane right now, im hurting and desperately struggling to learn through it, difficult child has bipolar it's a life's work, husband and i are trying.... and yup two crazy dogs..... yea that's my life :) anyway how are you doign with your crazy job?? [/QUOTE]
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